thelonelylife
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I'm a gay 20 year old guy that lives in a really small town where everyone knows everybody. My parents and family know that I'm gay, as well as a few friends.
I went to a very conservative high school that taught that being gay was wrong, and that they were bad people. So throughout high school, I never dated or went to prom, and therefore got laughed at and made fun of because they "thought" I was gay. Throughout school, I never had any friends, never got invited to anything, felt judged, and always felt like a complete outcast.
I am a very shy person to begin with, but these feelings of inadequacy from high school have transposed into my adult life and have crushed my identity as well as my self-esteem. These feelings have caused me draw back even more in fear that people might find out the "real" me and that I might be made fun of even more. I've drawn back from school, work, and even family. I do the least possible- I go to work, school, or the grocery store and immediately come home. I come home to an empty house every night, and sit and watch TV. I spend most weekends watching TV and sleeping. I have become severely depressed over the past few months and feel so isolated. I am so tired of living a lonely life, having no companionship, no friends, feeling rejected, and like a complete outcast in all aspects of my life.
I want to get out of this rut so bad, and live a happy life, but I don't know how to do it. Has anyone had this type of experience, or have any advice?
Thanks!
I went to a very conservative high school that taught that being gay was wrong, and that they were bad people. So throughout high school, I never dated or went to prom, and therefore got laughed at and made fun of because they "thought" I was gay. Throughout school, I never had any friends, never got invited to anything, felt judged, and always felt like a complete outcast.
I am a very shy person to begin with, but these feelings of inadequacy from high school have transposed into my adult life and have crushed my identity as well as my self-esteem. These feelings have caused me draw back even more in fear that people might find out the "real" me and that I might be made fun of even more. I've drawn back from school, work, and even family. I do the least possible- I go to work, school, or the grocery store and immediately come home. I come home to an empty house every night, and sit and watch TV. I spend most weekends watching TV and sleeping. I have become severely depressed over the past few months and feel so isolated. I am so tired of living a lonely life, having no companionship, no friends, feeling rejected, and like a complete outcast in all aspects of my life.
I want to get out of this rut so bad, and live a happy life, but I don't know how to do it. Has anyone had this type of experience, or have any advice?
Thanks!