Greatest loss?

[BrokenInside]

What is the greatest loss? A loved one's death? Being left behind is worse because you have to be with your usual surrounding, usual routine and this loved one is not around you anymore.

 

[Rosebolt]

The greatest loss is subjective.

 

[BrokenInside]

The greatest loss is subjective.

You are right! I probably failed to voice my thoughts in an appropriate way.

 

[Danielle]

So many different types of losses.... I don't think one is any less painful than another... I lost my mother when I was 11. I miss her dearly, even after 20 some odd years. I miss Ex's....I miss old friends that I lost contact with....I've lost a dear pet just last year.

Our grief reminds us of all that we do have to be grateful for. <3

Hope you are feeling ok.

 

[Bones]

My greatest losses felt has centered around interpersonal relationships.

As for my grandfather passing away in 2005, he is still in my heart & mind and think about him in the present tense as if he was alive - I still say my grandparents house.

 

[Locke]

Mine was my wife dying. My mom passed away when I was a kid, and I still think about that too. I've had other losses, but nothing has hurt more than someone I love passing away.

 

[VanillaCreme]

My grandmother passing away. Even when I lose everything else, including my mind, she will always be the greatest lost to me. Just seems like most everything else trickled into a downward spiral after she died.

 

[pshenderson]

I have never experienced death of anyone close to me so I can't really comment on that type of loss. I mourn the loss of my innocence when I was raped at the age of 5. That was death to me, it killed my self-esteem, my self-worth and it killed much of my future. I am in my 40's now and that loss still affects me even after years of healing. However, I do love myself now and know that I am worth much more than I was treated as a child.

 

[LonesomeLoner]

I'd say my Nanny & Grandad (mothers parents) they were basically parents to me as well. Miss them so much. R.I.P.

Also lost other members of my family. My Aunty and Great Nanny... R.I.P.

I Would say these are my greatest losses.