it's easier to build a friendship if you have something in common
with people...Sometype of a common bond...a hobby interest,
sometimes even sex
Most of the people that be friend me are becuase I'm laid back.
I'm a good listener and I have a good sense of humor.
Not all conversations have to be serious. It's a matter of building
trust. I don't think I'm less than or more than people.
I think everyone is different in thier own special way.
Some of my closest friends are the opposite sex.
Sometimes we just hang out...go for a stroll at the park
or just hang out in coffee shops....(Oh god, I don't go shoping with them)
Sometimes if she wants to or need to talk to me about
some deep personal issues. I'll mostly just listen. i don't judge
her or even give advice. I'm just there for her.
I met another friend a couple of weeks ago.
She's married and stuff like that...however she feels
she can talk to me as a person. i just listen to her.
She bascailly told me about half of her life and some pretty
personal stuff in an hour.
I met another male friend a month ago.
I'll call him every so often to talk to him.
My male friends are the same as far as trust.
Actaully i have a hard time trusting male friends than female friends.
My females friends bascailly have to help me, love me, hold me, let me cry in their arms.
Well...becuase I've had male friends messed my GFs...
I can probably hang out and talk to musicians all day long.
I also have a long time friend that I met at an R/C club. We can
talk about aviation all day long...sometimes our coversation will
spill into life issues. Well,...he's my friend and we can talk about
whatever.
It takes effort to build a relationship or friendship.
I call my friends or e-mail. Sometimes they're avaliable.
other time they're not...that's okay I don't trip.
Most people get back to me...
I don't bend over to get accepted anymore...those days are gone.
I'm continouslly evoling as a person and sometimes I'll go through changes
in my life..Other times...life on life's terms has me rattle, angery, or not feeling so good.
Sometimes..I'll bascailly shut people out of my life...bascailly some of my closest friends
today..calls me just so that I don't
For the most part I'm still me but a better version of me...
You'll either love me or you won't like me...but I'm not doing stupid honeysuckle just to feel accepted.
At this piont in my life...I aviod adbrasive people or manipulative
people. At the very least I'll keep a boundary..
IDK what to tell you or how I get a feel for some people.
Mostly eye contact to start off with....it's like looking into
a person's soul.
mmmm...well, for me.
I personally like to date a person with BOOBAYS and smells good
(i'm a guy
)
If she's snotty or adbrasive..i don't care how good looking she
is...I'll still aviod her. I don't want that or need that in my life today.