Why is it so hard for people to get into a relationship and for others it is so easy? There are some people out there like a lot of my past friends or new ones that just pick up on it so easily. They don't go like a week without being in a relationship. With some people they just like click with the opposite sex and do quite well with relationships. Where as some of us become secluded and detached away from society ending up quite lonely.
Are we just too used to lonliness and know nothing else that our social skills become hindered and we can't interact correctly with the opposite sex. Or we just never were taught while growing up or given the chance to blossom into a normal human being who can flirt and communicate well. It seems like our attraction level plays a big role in our time growing up because when you are unattractive you don't get the time of day other people get from the opposing gender.
I'm just curious to find the root of all evil that restrains us from branching out to be a better person and get a relationship we want. Have you ever asked yourself the question whats makes us so shy and how did I get like this? To me its because my parents weren't very open about the opposite sex and never taught me or my siblings about relationships. In school as well I was usually put down about my looks and how I acted around girls didn't help much. To be honest though I can't really remember when I became shy its like something clicked on when I was younger in my head.
Do we constantly look around at other couples and become consumed by a "why not me" complex in which we give off vibes of desperation,lonliness, and pathetic signs.I just wish I knew what made some of us so socially inept and how some of us can fix our problems. Sorry about my post it just seems like a cluttered mess of thoughts that I didn't put together properly but its just something I've always wondered.
Are we just too used to lonliness and know nothing else that our social skills become hindered and we can't interact correctly with the opposite sex. Or we just never were taught while growing up or given the chance to blossom into a normal human being who can flirt and communicate well. It seems like our attraction level plays a big role in our time growing up because when you are unattractive you don't get the time of day other people get from the opposing gender.
I'm just curious to find the root of all evil that restrains us from branching out to be a better person and get a relationship we want. Have you ever asked yourself the question whats makes us so shy and how did I get like this? To me its because my parents weren't very open about the opposite sex and never taught me or my siblings about relationships. In school as well I was usually put down about my looks and how I acted around girls didn't help much. To be honest though I can't really remember when I became shy its like something clicked on when I was younger in my head.
Do we constantly look around at other couples and become consumed by a "why not me" complex in which we give off vibes of desperation,lonliness, and pathetic signs.I just wish I knew what made some of us so socially inept and how some of us can fix our problems. Sorry about my post it just seems like a cluttered mess of thoughts that I didn't put together properly but its just something I've always wondered.