labelsorlove3
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In ninth grade I asked a guy from another high school if he would be my homecoming date. He said yes. The night I went to buy the dress with my mom he called and told my younger sister he couldn't go anymore. When I called him back he said it was because he didn't have money to buy the tickets. I told him my parents could pay but he still said no. the whole situation really messed up my self esteem and we never talked again. To this day I'm still paranoid a date or friends will stand me up or humiliate me.
A few days ago I saw him at a bar and I know he recognized me. It's been almost 13 years and he didn't say anything to me. Today I check my Facebook and he added me. Out of pure curiosity I added him just to see how his life turned out. He sent me a message saying "sorry for being a a hole all those years ago. I was a stupid kid back then. I was a huge piece of 'poop' I'm not that guy anymore I grew up a lot."
Well now he's in a seriousss relationship, has a good job, and fulfilling life. And here I am still traumatized by how he treated me. Of course I said I forgave him. But I don't think I ever will. I hate what he did to my confidence and how he thinks a Facebook apology will make it okay.
A few days ago I saw him at a bar and I know he recognized me. It's been almost 13 years and he didn't say anything to me. Today I check my Facebook and he added me. Out of pure curiosity I added him just to see how his life turned out. He sent me a message saying "sorry for being a a hole all those years ago. I was a stupid kid back then. I was a huge piece of 'poop' I'm not that guy anymore I grew up a lot."
Well now he's in a seriousss relationship, has a good job, and fulfilling life. And here I am still traumatized by how he treated me. Of course I said I forgave him. But I don't think I ever will. I hate what he did to my confidence and how he thinks a Facebook apology will make it okay.