Revengineer
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To be in a good relationship with someone you should be close friends with that person first. I'm sure we can all agree on that.
However, being close friends with someone makes it less likely that they'll want to be in a relationship with you. It makes things "complicated" so a lot of people don't want to bother with it.
So basically the best option is to look for someone you don't know THAT well, and hope you get lucky and develop a close friendship (instead of growing to mutually despise each other). Why does it need to be this way?
I find this to be completely backwards but I guess this is just how things work. Dating makes no sense to me whatsoever.
However, being close friends with someone makes it less likely that they'll want to be in a relationship with you. It makes things "complicated" so a lot of people don't want to bother with it.
So basically the best option is to look for someone you don't know THAT well, and hope you get lucky and develop a close friendship (instead of growing to mutually despise each other). Why does it need to be this way?
I find this to be completely backwards but I guess this is just how things work. Dating makes no sense to me whatsoever.