Lonelydriver
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I know the topic of thread is weird. I definitely have troubling not falling in love with a Indian girl at workplace. Here is a short story, Three of us ( a guy, me, the Indian girl) are interns in a company. We have a lot of fun joking around. I really like to tease the Indian girl . She catches and loves my sense of humor. The only reason i am doing this is because i am not a native English speaker. In order to blend with the group, I need to act funny to cheer up everyone. In a working situation, I work harder than anyone else. However, if we talk together ( Me, the guy, the girl), I can't really get into the conservation with them , mainly some language problems and the lack of social knowledge ( topics like clubbing and party schools stuff). I can feel that the Indian girls likes me because the way she acts to me. when i staring at her , she turns back. she said she likes cute Asian guys. she always laugh at me. She is kind of nervous when talking to me. So my conclusion is that on the scale of like 1-10, I would say she is on 6 to me. I am very confident that i can get her if i try. However, On the scale of like 1-10, i am 7 to her. I just think i am not ready to start a relationship because I don't have very strong English and social skills, but a sense of humor。 I don't really those thing are really matter. I can't say that i am not confident. but just not ready yet.
Here is advise I have for myself:
1.To meet more English speaking friends be more a social person, then hook up some English speaking girls
2. forget about her , no change, stick to my Asian Friends who speak all Chinese ( by the way, I love them, but I really want to have a new group of English speaking friends. I almost lost contact with my Asian friends because i moved to a new city. I just feel like it is a time to start something new )
Here is advise I have for myself:
1.To meet more English speaking friends be more a social person, then hook up some English speaking girls
2. forget about her , no change, stick to my Asian Friends who speak all Chinese ( by the way, I love them, but I really want to have a new group of English speaking friends. I almost lost contact with my Asian friends because i moved to a new city. I just feel like it is a time to start something new )