Haz
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These are powerful words.
The last girl I was into said this to me regularly, but when she told me she was seeing someone and I felt my heart break in two, she seemed shocked when I told her how I felt. What is even worse, is that she had been regularly visiting and sleeping with the guy for months and only just decided to tell me that she thinks she "likes him".
I don't get it. I'm over it and it has been a long time since we've talked but I keep thinking of this, my perception of women has been pretty strongly shaped through her. It is as if she could just go from guy to guy and love them all, but act surprised when one of them gets hurt or jealous because of it. I can't claim to know anything about dating scenes or what city girls get up to, but the promiscuity makes saying "I love you" seem insincere and silly.
Is this immaturity on her part, or mine? She claimed she wishes things were more simple, but y'know, that is exactly what my problem is. I'm adventurous, and certainly willing not to live by a code of strict, traditionalist rules when it comes to relationships but still i'm not ashamed of being a romantic at heart. I always keep those words for a truly special someone, and it is the worst feeling when the impact of them just seems to be devalued for one reason or another
The last girl I was into said this to me regularly, but when she told me she was seeing someone and I felt my heart break in two, she seemed shocked when I told her how I felt. What is even worse, is that she had been regularly visiting and sleeping with the guy for months and only just decided to tell me that she thinks she "likes him".
I don't get it. I'm over it and it has been a long time since we've talked but I keep thinking of this, my perception of women has been pretty strongly shaped through her. It is as if she could just go from guy to guy and love them all, but act surprised when one of them gets hurt or jealous because of it. I can't claim to know anything about dating scenes or what city girls get up to, but the promiscuity makes saying "I love you" seem insincere and silly.
Is this immaturity on her part, or mine? She claimed she wishes things were more simple, but y'know, that is exactly what my problem is. I'm adventurous, and certainly willing not to live by a code of strict, traditionalist rules when it comes to relationships but still i'm not ashamed of being a romantic at heart. I always keep those words for a truly special someone, and it is the worst feeling when the impact of them just seems to be devalued for one reason or another