Josh206043
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That's too true.
rdor said:The people who would notice would be family (consisting of 2 people), and of course they would notice I was missing at work.
My "friends" never initiate, so it's quite likely they would never know if I was run over by a bus.
rdor said:"friends" who never initiate contact simply aren't friends
Astral_Punisher said:but I just wanted to tell that little story about people forgetting people.
rdor said:Astral_Punisher said:but I just wanted to tell that little story about people forgetting people.
Ah yeah, but there's a limit to the number of times you're willing to bite the bullet before it gets seriously embarassing.
Some just think it's normal to move on from whatever situation they were in, be it work or study, and forget about people. A bit like "well I no longer see you on a regular basis, so this holds no value to me now" or "nice knowing you but I already belong to a long-established clique, so if there's any contact you can be **** sure it will be you making the effort, got it??"
Or maybe they take the friendship for granted as assume they'll catch up one day.
Yes I do know the difference between an acquaintance, "work friend" and the real thing.
Your friends, if they consider themselves that, should be ashamed, by the way.
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