MrsMystery
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Ok im confused and i dont get it. So im living in this new country far away from my family and well ill say 'friends' but im not a 'friend' kind of person as in without them id be lost. When I lived in the UK with my husband we basically had each other and sure sometimes we'd get on each other nerves but id still be excited waiting for him to come home from work, and we laughed and we talked and sure we argued.
But now here i am in this place away from everyone except him but its not the same. I see him when he's actually awake maybe an hour a day if im lucky, and we barely talk because i don't know what to say, and i want him around but when hes around i dont feel comfortable. Im sitting here its a tuesday evening and i havent seen another living soul or uttered a word to anyone since sunday afternoon. He just came back after being out all day, he stayed for 30 minutes and left and i wanted to sit here and cry that i was alone yet again, but the tears didnt come.
But we're not fighting, we're not mad at each other heck he just made me dinner before he left so whats up with me? Im lonely, im bored but its gone on so long its more than that. In an average week i leave the house for maybe 10 hours total, even then its from one house to another house to sit alone with my lap top. We dont kiss, we dont hug but we dont hate each other either. They say its when you stop fighting that something is wrong, so is something wrong?
Im making no sense even to myself so i apologise to anyone reading this i think the solitude is slowly melting my brain cells, i understand why solitary confinement is such a punishment, but at the moment i could endure because its nothing much different to how my life is right now.
But now here i am in this place away from everyone except him but its not the same. I see him when he's actually awake maybe an hour a day if im lucky, and we barely talk because i don't know what to say, and i want him around but when hes around i dont feel comfortable. Im sitting here its a tuesday evening and i havent seen another living soul or uttered a word to anyone since sunday afternoon. He just came back after being out all day, he stayed for 30 minutes and left and i wanted to sit here and cry that i was alone yet again, but the tears didnt come.
But we're not fighting, we're not mad at each other heck he just made me dinner before he left so whats up with me? Im lonely, im bored but its gone on so long its more than that. In an average week i leave the house for maybe 10 hours total, even then its from one house to another house to sit alone with my lap top. We dont kiss, we dont hug but we dont hate each other either. They say its when you stop fighting that something is wrong, so is something wrong?
Im making no sense even to myself so i apologise to anyone reading this i think the solitude is slowly melting my brain cells, i understand why solitary confinement is such a punishment, but at the moment i could endure because its nothing much different to how my life is right now.