angel_in_view
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Hey everyone! My sister & I were talking about this last night and I thought it would be an interesting topic to post here. This is for both the ladies and the guys!
I know we are not perfect by any means, but when it comes to dating someone, do you make decisions based on their appearance? Would it stop you from dating them if they didn't "correct the issue?" Now when I say this, I don't mean weight. I'm referring to how they take care of their appearance otherwise.
This was the topic of conversation during my sister's lunch break @ work. She said a couple of the replies surprised her a bit. The majority of them said they simply want the woman to actually respect herself enough to come out of the house w/o looking a mess. When they were asked to elaborate, they said understand that all of us have an "off day," but don't look a mess daily & then be mad when you can't get a date. They went on to say they don't mean you have to have fake stuff on from your head to your feet, but show that you DO care about what you have going on. My sister said a couple of guys in the room said they didn't care as long as the woman was clean & didn't stink. She said there were mixed opinions from the women...some wouldn't dream of not having a mani/pedi every 2 wks, some wouldn't dare go 2 wks w/o getting their hair done, some don't step foot into a salon bc they do all the stuff at home and some do well to just get to work in one piece and have the "take it as you see it" attitude. lol..
I know we are not perfect by any means, but when it comes to dating someone, do you make decisions based on their appearance? Would it stop you from dating them if they didn't "correct the issue?" Now when I say this, I don't mean weight. I'm referring to how they take care of their appearance otherwise.
This was the topic of conversation during my sister's lunch break @ work. She said a couple of the replies surprised her a bit. The majority of them said they simply want the woman to actually respect herself enough to come out of the house w/o looking a mess. When they were asked to elaborate, they said understand that all of us have an "off day," but don't look a mess daily & then be mad when you can't get a date. They went on to say they don't mean you have to have fake stuff on from your head to your feet, but show that you DO care about what you have going on. My sister said a couple of guys in the room said they didn't care as long as the woman was clean & didn't stink. She said there were mixed opinions from the women...some wouldn't dream of not having a mani/pedi every 2 wks, some wouldn't dare go 2 wks w/o getting their hair done, some don't step foot into a salon bc they do all the stuff at home and some do well to just get to work in one piece and have the "take it as you see it" attitude. lol..