AlexChristy
Well-known member
- Joined
- Oct 30, 2013
- Messages
- 84
- Reaction score
- 1
Ok, I suck at English, but I don't suck at trying to make people a little bit positive and happier.
Here we are, on A Lonely Life, why are we here? Because we are alone.
Is it a good state of mind?
No, it is not.
If you were alone and happy, you won't join this community, because the fact that you are here means that you don't want to stay alone, so you made a decision to join this community.
Thereby, you don't want to be alone.
What is loneliness? Illness.
To get rid of loneliness - would it be a good idea? I think, it would. What about you?
But before you start talking about how to get rid of loneliess we have to determine what it is.
As for me, loneliness is a lack of communication.
The less you express yourself, the more alone you are.
The less the amount of people you are talking to every day, the more lonely you are.
Let's do the math. Here is the formula.
The level of your loneliness is about the quantity and the quality.
What do I mean?
Here is Bob. Every day he talks to 30 persons. They aren't his friends, just coworkers, but he cames back home, turns on TV and lies in the bad. He feels good. He doesn't want to join converations at A Lonely Life. He doesn't need it.
Why isn't he lonely? Because he has a lot of communication and networking in his life. It's not about quality, it's about quantity.
Ok, here is Barbara, she-is-stay at home mom. The only person she speaks to every day is her mother. She spends hours in front of her iPhone talking to her mother via Skype.
Does she feel alone? She does. Why? Her conversation is about quality, not about quantity. This amount of communication cannot make her happy. She still feels lonely.
The amount of communication a person needs every day varies from person to person. So you and only you have to determine this amount. But it should be about quality and quantity. Your mother - is quantity, your coworkers - is quality.
Would you like to get rid of loneliness instantly? I know how to do that. How? Join MLM company. I'm not kidding. Probably, you won't make money, but you'll become happier and happier. The amount of communication will increase dramatically. Moreover, you'll have a sponsor, who will be interested in your success.
Ok, a few days ago I took part in business building seminar, which was conducted by one MLM company. I am not a fan of multi-level marketing business, but I'm sure: the only alone person in that hall was me. I visited it just for fun.
I understand that 99% of them will never make money, but until they are there, they don't have time to be alone.
If you think that loneliness is not illness, you are wrong. It's not a comfortable state of mind. A person in a depression, in an anxiety cannot be happy.
I saw here threads about Facebook. A guy said, it's a crappy website, because his freidns aren't interested in his life. It surprises me.
You are responsible for everything what's happenning in your life. You must take 100% responsibility for everything in your life.
If your friends are "fake friends" - it is because of you, and not because of them.
If you feel alone, it's because of you, and not because of other people who are not interested in your life.
They are not interested, because you are not interesting.
Nobody is interested in my life, because I'm not interesting. It's the truth.
By the way, the only question I have to you is do you think that loneliness is illness, or do you feel comfortable being alone?
Sorry for my sucking English.
Here we are, on A Lonely Life, why are we here? Because we are alone.
Is it a good state of mind?
No, it is not.
If you were alone and happy, you won't join this community, because the fact that you are here means that you don't want to stay alone, so you made a decision to join this community.
Thereby, you don't want to be alone.
What is loneliness? Illness.
To get rid of loneliness - would it be a good idea? I think, it would. What about you?
But before you start talking about how to get rid of loneliess we have to determine what it is.
As for me, loneliness is a lack of communication.
The less you express yourself, the more alone you are.
The less the amount of people you are talking to every day, the more lonely you are.
Let's do the math. Here is the formula.
The level of your loneliness is about the quantity and the quality.
What do I mean?
Here is Bob. Every day he talks to 30 persons. They aren't his friends, just coworkers, but he cames back home, turns on TV and lies in the bad. He feels good. He doesn't want to join converations at A Lonely Life. He doesn't need it.
Why isn't he lonely? Because he has a lot of communication and networking in his life. It's not about quality, it's about quantity.
Ok, here is Barbara, she-is-stay at home mom. The only person she speaks to every day is her mother. She spends hours in front of her iPhone talking to her mother via Skype.
Does she feel alone? She does. Why? Her conversation is about quality, not about quantity. This amount of communication cannot make her happy. She still feels lonely.
The amount of communication a person needs every day varies from person to person. So you and only you have to determine this amount. But it should be about quality and quantity. Your mother - is quantity, your coworkers - is quality.
Would you like to get rid of loneliness instantly? I know how to do that. How? Join MLM company. I'm not kidding. Probably, you won't make money, but you'll become happier and happier. The amount of communication will increase dramatically. Moreover, you'll have a sponsor, who will be interested in your success.
Ok, a few days ago I took part in business building seminar, which was conducted by one MLM company. I am not a fan of multi-level marketing business, but I'm sure: the only alone person in that hall was me. I visited it just for fun.
I understand that 99% of them will never make money, but until they are there, they don't have time to be alone.
If you think that loneliness is not illness, you are wrong. It's not a comfortable state of mind. A person in a depression, in an anxiety cannot be happy.
I saw here threads about Facebook. A guy said, it's a crappy website, because his freidns aren't interested in his life. It surprises me.
You are responsible for everything what's happenning in your life. You must take 100% responsibility for everything in your life.
If your friends are "fake friends" - it is because of you, and not because of them.
If you feel alone, it's because of you, and not because of other people who are not interested in your life.
They are not interested, because you are not interesting.
Nobody is interested in my life, because I'm not interesting. It's the truth.
By the way, the only question I have to you is do you think that loneliness is illness, or do you feel comfortable being alone?
Sorry for my sucking English.