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Sorry don’t want to add more sadness here but I need to rant.
I’m 34, male and last year was the worst of my life, it was extremely traumatic and the most challenging.
Here’s the short version, lost my mom to c., got laid off and 3 days after burying my mom found out that my ex gf of 4 years cheated on me, had to move back with my dad, and to top it off was put into debt because of my ex.
Believe it or not, I didn’t loose it until 5 months later.
Anyways, I am working with a counselor and such. I’m not crazy overly depressed or anything close to it.
I’m very functional and always find the strength to keep going to rebuild my life.
I go out a lot, to clubs and bars, parties you name it. I admit, my pick up skills were a bit rusty at first, now I’m better still not on top of my game.
Besides all of these factors, the one thing that bothers me a lot is the loneliness and endless failures with finding the right mate.
In the span of one year, I’ve met two girls. Both just didn’t match my type. And lastly, I was set up with this girl by friends; even though I was interested she just kept on playing games with me.
At this point it’s getting really frustrating; the loneliness is hard to deal with.
I’m loosing all hopes of even finding a normal girl! I’m not expecting the perfect person, just someone that is sincere, down to earth and cute, which is reasonable.
I’ve evaluated my personality, read self help books, I workout consistently, I dress well, you name it..
Is there any hope left out there? Anyone has success stories they can share?
I’m 34, male and last year was the worst of my life, it was extremely traumatic and the most challenging.
Here’s the short version, lost my mom to c., got laid off and 3 days after burying my mom found out that my ex gf of 4 years cheated on me, had to move back with my dad, and to top it off was put into debt because of my ex.
Believe it or not, I didn’t loose it until 5 months later.
Anyways, I am working with a counselor and such. I’m not crazy overly depressed or anything close to it.
I’m very functional and always find the strength to keep going to rebuild my life.
I go out a lot, to clubs and bars, parties you name it. I admit, my pick up skills were a bit rusty at first, now I’m better still not on top of my game.
Besides all of these factors, the one thing that bothers me a lot is the loneliness and endless failures with finding the right mate.
In the span of one year, I’ve met two girls. Both just didn’t match my type. And lastly, I was set up with this girl by friends; even though I was interested she just kept on playing games with me.
At this point it’s getting really frustrating; the loneliness is hard to deal with.
I’m loosing all hopes of even finding a normal girl! I’m not expecting the perfect person, just someone that is sincere, down to earth and cute, which is reasonable.
I’ve evaluated my personality, read self help books, I workout consistently, I dress well, you name it..
Is there any hope left out there? Anyone has success stories they can share?