I
ImaginaryFriend
Guest
Hello everyone,
I've been lurking here for awhile, but decided to actually register and be a part of the community. I think it will help me to talk to others who feel the same way I do.
Well, I'll try to keep this short! I'm 29, and I've been lonely all my life. When I was younger, I thought that my social life would magically start to form when I became older and automatically "cooler". Well, of course that never happened! I thought I would be "cool" and have lots of friends the older I got, but nope! I still feel like the lonely little girl I always was who was too shy and lacking in confidence to talk to people.
I've had friends in the past, but they never stick. Any friends I made before have disappeared for one reason or another. Usually it's because they have other friends that are more outgoing, funny and sociable.
I try to think about all of my good qualities to perk myself up, but that list is pretty short! The only thing I can feel good about is that I can draw. I usually just draw in anime or cartoon style, and I might do the occasional fan art drawing. So, I might have a future as an artist. That would be my dream! But, even if that happened, I would still be lonely.
I don't care about romantic relationships anymore, just friendships. I'm not opposed to dating someone, but my first (and last) relationship lasted 5 years and that ended a couple of years ago when my boyfriend broke up with me, and started dating a cute blonde shortly afterwards (and I suspect that he cheated on me before he decided to call it quits). I thought that if even if we stopped dating that we would be friends forever, but he stopped contacting me. I guess the new girl was all he needed.
So, I'd rather have friends than lovers because lovers are too fickle. Well, actually my experience has proven that friends can be fickle, too! But, I'd just feel safer establishing a friendship over a romantic one.
I guess I might have abandonment issues. I always feel like anybody I meet or become friends with will stop contacting me at some point. My life experience hasn't proven anything to the contrary. And, I'm 90% convinced that I'll be alone (and lonely) forever. If things haven't turned around for me in the past despite putting myself out there, then maybe I should resign myself to being a loner.
Well, I thought I was going to make this short, but I guess not. Thank you all for taking the time to read this!
I've been lurking here for awhile, but decided to actually register and be a part of the community. I think it will help me to talk to others who feel the same way I do.
Well, I'll try to keep this short! I'm 29, and I've been lonely all my life. When I was younger, I thought that my social life would magically start to form when I became older and automatically "cooler". Well, of course that never happened! I thought I would be "cool" and have lots of friends the older I got, but nope! I still feel like the lonely little girl I always was who was too shy and lacking in confidence to talk to people.
I've had friends in the past, but they never stick. Any friends I made before have disappeared for one reason or another. Usually it's because they have other friends that are more outgoing, funny and sociable.
I try to think about all of my good qualities to perk myself up, but that list is pretty short! The only thing I can feel good about is that I can draw. I usually just draw in anime or cartoon style, and I might do the occasional fan art drawing. So, I might have a future as an artist. That would be my dream! But, even if that happened, I would still be lonely.
I don't care about romantic relationships anymore, just friendships. I'm not opposed to dating someone, but my first (and last) relationship lasted 5 years and that ended a couple of years ago when my boyfriend broke up with me, and started dating a cute blonde shortly afterwards (and I suspect that he cheated on me before he decided to call it quits). I thought that if even if we stopped dating that we would be friends forever, but he stopped contacting me. I guess the new girl was all he needed.
So, I'd rather have friends than lovers because lovers are too fickle. Well, actually my experience has proven that friends can be fickle, too! But, I'd just feel safer establishing a friendship over a romantic one.
I guess I might have abandonment issues. I always feel like anybody I meet or become friends with will stop contacting me at some point. My life experience hasn't proven anything to the contrary. And, I'm 90% convinced that I'll be alone (and lonely) forever. If things haven't turned around for me in the past despite putting myself out there, then maybe I should resign myself to being a loner.
Well, I thought I was going to make this short, but I guess not. Thank you all for taking the time to read this!