lookingforthelight
Member
*warning* This is kind of a rant, but I want to see if anyone out there has anything in common with me.
I have no friends.
I'm stuck- both literally and figuratively- in a place I don't want to be.
I'm better off than I was 3 years ago, in terms of my emotional state- I can get a better grip of things and I am 100% sure that I am not going to kill myself anytime soon.
It's been a long time since I've had a friend or gone out with a friend. Almost 4 years exactly. This is by choice and by circumstance (moving, stress, depression, avoiding people due to insecurity).
Now on to my insecuritities:
I hate my height. It makes me feel unfeminine.
I feel very unattractive (people have joked that I am too old to still have baby fat. )
I know that things are gonna change soon (there's a new job on the horizon, which means new environment), but I don't know if I'll ever get over this.
Not to sound cliche, but Every time I have opened myself up to other people, I have gotten hurt. I'm so ashamed that I was so depressed. I'm scared I will never be accepted.
I have this dark fantasy of making someone fall in love with me and then killing myself. I've never felt loved. My parents really messed me up by being so cold with me.
*sigh*
I'm done now.
I have no friends.
I'm stuck- both literally and figuratively- in a place I don't want to be.
I'm better off than I was 3 years ago, in terms of my emotional state- I can get a better grip of things and I am 100% sure that I am not going to kill myself anytime soon.
It's been a long time since I've had a friend or gone out with a friend. Almost 4 years exactly. This is by choice and by circumstance (moving, stress, depression, avoiding people due to insecurity).
Now on to my insecuritities:
I hate my height. It makes me feel unfeminine.
I feel very unattractive (people have joked that I am too old to still have baby fat. )
I know that things are gonna change soon (there's a new job on the horizon, which means new environment), but I don't know if I'll ever get over this.
Not to sound cliche, but Every time I have opened myself up to other people, I have gotten hurt. I'm so ashamed that I was so depressed. I'm scared I will never be accepted.
I have this dark fantasy of making someone fall in love with me and then killing myself. I've never felt loved. My parents really messed me up by being so cold with me.
*sigh*
I'm done now.