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Luna
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Well, my loving auntie sat me down today, and wanted to have a heart-to-heart discussion with me.
She spoke of how she used to have a colleague, who was shy and always kept to himself. One day, she said "Good morning" to him out of politeness, and saw that his eyes sparkled and how he suddenly lit up. She mentioned that she could feel his desperation, his joy at someone noticing his existence for the first time.
Translation: She found him *creepy* and ignored him from that day onward.
Me: I could feel my heart sink in when I heard that...that must be how others feel around me?
Maybe I make their skin crawl? I have met people from online dating sites, volunteering, church groups - the list goes on. They'll mention of an upcoming party, meetup etc., but when I message/phone them (I only do it ONCE, mind you), they never answer.
It is always after the first meeting, that they'll avoid me. Yet during the first meeting, they'll laugh at my jokes and suggest that we hang out another time? The conversation will go great in fact, but...
She said to me...how she saw a change in me whenever I was around people. How joyful, funny, happy that I am...and she said there were several instances, where she saw that I tried to befriend others, only to have them not smile back and reject me. She stated she didn't want to bring it up before, because she didn't want to remind me of those moments.
But if she sees it, maybe everyone else can too...
...
Well...
fresia them, fresia me, fresia you, fresia everyone.
*puffpuff*
;-;
She spoke of how she used to have a colleague, who was shy and always kept to himself. One day, she said "Good morning" to him out of politeness, and saw that his eyes sparkled and how he suddenly lit up. She mentioned that she could feel his desperation, his joy at someone noticing his existence for the first time.
Translation: She found him *creepy* and ignored him from that day onward.
Me: I could feel my heart sink in when I heard that...that must be how others feel around me?
Maybe I make their skin crawl? I have met people from online dating sites, volunteering, church groups - the list goes on. They'll mention of an upcoming party, meetup etc., but when I message/phone them (I only do it ONCE, mind you), they never answer.
It is always after the first meeting, that they'll avoid me. Yet during the first meeting, they'll laugh at my jokes and suggest that we hang out another time? The conversation will go great in fact, but...
She said to me...how she saw a change in me whenever I was around people. How joyful, funny, happy that I am...and she said there were several instances, where she saw that I tried to befriend others, only to have them not smile back and reject me. She stated she didn't want to bring it up before, because she didn't want to remind me of those moments.
But if she sees it, maybe everyone else can too...
...
Well...
fresia them, fresia me, fresia you, fresia everyone.
*puffpuff*
;-;