MellyVinelli
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Something just came to me. I spent a couple of years working in research which many would immediately say that is probably the most anti-social job one could have. That is probably one reason I took it. However, it did come with its challenges. I was forced to give my share of oral presentations with PowerPoint slides in front of pretty large audiences composed of experts in their fields be it professors, post-docs, surgeons, and other people like me.
It was really uncomfortable especially the night before but the outcome became better each time I did it. My very last presentation I won $350...not first place but still!
It gave me confidence and I feel better at communication in general.
I even read up on a PUA website, yes I know it's controversial with women and I don't want to talk about it anymore than I need to, that one can practice many scenarios and prepare a script or several 'openers' to get things going for those who don't know how to strike up conversations with women. And there are other things to do to keep the conversation going.
I'm sticking to conversation and have no ulterior motives so I'm not discussing 'closers' or anything. But it comes back to preparation.
But say something like 'toastmasters' which is a society does nothing but practice public speaking gives you an avenue to do it until you don't flinch if people throw stuff at you. Imagine how much more you can accomplish by developing thicker skin? I believe toastmasters is all over the world so any of you should have access to it. It would help decrease that social anxiety. But it may not have to be them, the bottom line is practice and drill things you don't feel good at!
Cheers all!
It was really uncomfortable especially the night before but the outcome became better each time I did it. My very last presentation I won $350...not first place but still!
It gave me confidence and I feel better at communication in general.
I even read up on a PUA website, yes I know it's controversial with women and I don't want to talk about it anymore than I need to, that one can practice many scenarios and prepare a script or several 'openers' to get things going for those who don't know how to strike up conversations with women. And there are other things to do to keep the conversation going.
I'm sticking to conversation and have no ulterior motives so I'm not discussing 'closers' or anything. But it comes back to preparation.
But say something like 'toastmasters' which is a society does nothing but practice public speaking gives you an avenue to do it until you don't flinch if people throw stuff at you. Imagine how much more you can accomplish by developing thicker skin? I believe toastmasters is all over the world so any of you should have access to it. It would help decrease that social anxiety. But it may not have to be them, the bottom line is practice and drill things you don't feel good at!
Cheers all!