nerdygirl
Well-known member
I was trying to figure out the perfect wording to describe how I felt, and I put something about loneliness on Google... and here I am.
I recently learned I have Emotional Deprivation Disorder and Alexithymia. I didn't know what they were until they gave me a lot of material to read, and then I was like, "Yes! Yes, that's me! That's exactly what I feel like."
If you don't know, Emotional Deprivation Disorder happens if you're abused and/or neglected as a kid, never shown unconditional love. It makes it so you cannot really process love, and you always question the sincerity of those who show you affection. Alexithymia means "without words for emotions". I can't really identify or express my emotions. What a hoot.
Anyway, it's hard to have a relationship when you can hardly manage to be in Like, let alone Love. I've been told that eventually, if I found somebody who could give me unconditional love and be okay with it being unrequited... sooner or later, it should "fix" me, and I'd love him back, and we'd live happily ever after. Unfortunately, this is real life, and that doesn't happen here.
I recently learned I have Emotional Deprivation Disorder and Alexithymia. I didn't know what they were until they gave me a lot of material to read, and then I was like, "Yes! Yes, that's me! That's exactly what I feel like."
If you don't know, Emotional Deprivation Disorder happens if you're abused and/or neglected as a kid, never shown unconditional love. It makes it so you cannot really process love, and you always question the sincerity of those who show you affection. Alexithymia means "without words for emotions". I can't really identify or express my emotions. What a hoot.
Anyway, it's hard to have a relationship when you can hardly manage to be in Like, let alone Love. I've been told that eventually, if I found somebody who could give me unconditional love and be okay with it being unrequited... sooner or later, it should "fix" me, and I'd love him back, and we'd live happily ever after. Unfortunately, this is real life, and that doesn't happen here.