Mike510
Well-known member
Alright so as some of you may know I frequent dating sites recently and I have got to know many nice and not so nice women. Well there has been this one girl I talked to for about a month (yes I know I am surprised she still kept contact), and we finally went out monday and I thought she had a good personality and she was cute. Well when I said goodnight to her she told me she loves me, and I felt really awkward. It kind of ended like that but the next day I messaged her and told her I had a great night and she said she did to. Then she spent most the day sending me messages, she asked me if I ever wanted to get married or have children which I thought was an alright question if we are going to start dating. Well we agreed to meet up again last night and she practically tackled me when we meet. I kind of just laughed about it and we went out bowling and had a great time. Then we walked home afterward and she started kissing me, I personally didn't mind haha. But she didn't stop and I started to feel like this was turning into more than a date and then she said something I wasn't expecting. She asked me will I marry her. All I could say was "what", she said I was the kind of guy she always wanted to spend her life with and I told her, hey we only been on two dates in three days isn't this fast and she said she has to be bold to make sure she gets what she wants. I told her I was going to go home and think about everything.
I get up this morning and I have two messages on my phone, one from a friend and one from her. I listen to my friends message and he says hey I heard your going to get married and I called back asking him what, he said that he knew friends of the girl I had been seeing and she told all of them we were getting married. Then I check my other message on my phone and it is the girl saying how I make her the happiest she has ever been in her life. So I decided to call her and get to the bottom of this, she answers and I tell her what is this I hear about you telling everyone were engaged; then she says oh I just had to let everyone know. I told her I never said I was going to marry you, and she said well you didn't say no either. So I figure that is the end of that right? Wrong 2 minutes later I get a message from her saying she was going to look for a dress and I sent a message back saying what did I not just get through telling you. She completly ignores the message and about an hour later messages me about weather or not I would want a boy or a girl as a first child. I end up messaging her again telling her she must be out of her mind if she believes we are going to be having kids together. Right after I send that message I get one back from her saying she is going to see her doctor and see if she can come off birth control pills. I have not even sent a message back I don't know what the point is, why she is doing all this, and she knows a lot of the same people as me so my life is ruined. Is there anything I can possibly do besides trying to have her committed to a mental hospital?
I get up this morning and I have two messages on my phone, one from a friend and one from her. I listen to my friends message and he says hey I heard your going to get married and I called back asking him what, he said that he knew friends of the girl I had been seeing and she told all of them we were getting married. Then I check my other message on my phone and it is the girl saying how I make her the happiest she has ever been in her life. So I decided to call her and get to the bottom of this, she answers and I tell her what is this I hear about you telling everyone were engaged; then she says oh I just had to let everyone know. I told her I never said I was going to marry you, and she said well you didn't say no either. So I figure that is the end of that right? Wrong 2 minutes later I get a message from her saying she was going to look for a dress and I sent a message back saying what did I not just get through telling you. She completly ignores the message and about an hour later messages me about weather or not I would want a boy or a girl as a first child. I end up messaging her again telling her she must be out of her mind if she believes we are going to be having kids together. Right after I send that message I get one back from her saying she is going to see her doctor and see if she can come off birth control pills. I have not even sent a message back I don't know what the point is, why she is doing all this, and she knows a lot of the same people as me so my life is ruined. Is there anything I can possibly do besides trying to have her committed to a mental hospital?