DakotaDesert said:
Lonesome Crow said:
I say change or adujst the meter accordingly. Maybe take it out of overdrive.
Compermise, find a balance perhapse or make consession
I like a strong independent women..but not to the piont of it's her way or the highway
Her way is the only way becuase she dosn't need a man. Not to piont of where it
becomes a control issue. Not to the piont of where love is used as a bargining chip
or withholding love becuase a woman is so..so strong.
It dosn't scare me...it turns me off. I'm not afriad of women. I love women.
I don't want a mommy...I want a woman...
As you don't want a daddy to tell you want to do.
All I know is..if I didn't change from a lot of old behaviors I used to do as a child
or a young man or even 1 year ago....I would be in the grave by now.
I can't be wearing a snow jacket during the summer at the beach,
if my life is no longer in a log cabin during the winter.
Shift gears or be flexiable.
I am not independente or strong to the point of it is a controlissue. I just like to be able to do things on my own but I am financially independente, I have a good job with responsabilities, I do not like when a man who is not my kids dad tells me how I should raise my kids, I do not always ask the guy I am with to come on a trip with me and I go by myself, I want to be able to go out with my friends and not always invite him...... The way I want it is: being in a serious relationship made of love and trust but each of us keeps its own home, habits... Is it too much to ask? Am I abnormal? Maybe I do not know anyting about relationship. I am ready to hear it if it is the case.
No, you're not abnormal. It's just a matter of perference.
No..if that's how you want to live your life.
Actaully it's what a normal or a healthy realtionship is as discribe
in a lot of relationships.
That's pretty much how I lived when I was in a relationship.
I had my own hobbie and interest. So when I spent time with
my gf it was quality time. ( I felt it...I'm not sure if she felt
the sameway) I didn't drink or go to bars. I just go to my
R/C flying field and hang with the guys on weekends that
we didn't have plans together.
It's why it was difficult to hook up with a partner that's
compatiable with your perfernce. If you're just dating
and havn't built up a strong bond or a foundations ...
Men are stepping away from you after a while becuase they want more?
Are you just dating at the moment ?
Do you have a live in partner at the moment ?
My parents had been married for almost 40 years.
My mom gose shop with her friends or go bolwing with out my father all the time.
My father also gose on gigs and jam out with his band.
They have thier challenges but they spend time together.
As far as relationship ..there always going to be sometype
of compermise