But we don't exactly know each other.
I feel really drawn to this guy in one of my classes. I think it's because he looks so much like my ex, who I still have feelings for. Big red flag, I know, but that's how it is. I've been extremely lonely and depressed, and I just want someone to help give me some relief. Having someone to care for and who cares for me would really, really help. It's just how I know myself to work, even if it isn't "ideal". I hope others can understand that. I am aware that I have unresolved issues I need to work out, but that's a whole other can of worms.
Point being...I want to get to know him. I've never really spoken with him before. I tried to once, and he just turned away really quickly after he had answered my question. Didn't seem too interested.
How can I get to know him? Or get his attention? I've been in three relationships before, but they were all instigated by me. I felt confident enough to do it because they were kind of socially below me and I had known them for quite some time beforehand, as bitchy as that sounds.
My problem is that if I think a guy's cute or could be a nice guy to date, I get really nervous and shy and lock up. It's hard to be myself and I automatically think he won't like me or he'll think I'm weird, unattractive, boring, etc. I've never had good social skills and I'm lost as to how I should go about things. I don't know what to say to him. This would be my first time purposely trying to make friends with someone and my first time trying to get to know someone I'm initially attracted to.
I feel really drawn to this guy in one of my classes. I think it's because he looks so much like my ex, who I still have feelings for. Big red flag, I know, but that's how it is. I've been extremely lonely and depressed, and I just want someone to help give me some relief. Having someone to care for and who cares for me would really, really help. It's just how I know myself to work, even if it isn't "ideal". I hope others can understand that. I am aware that I have unresolved issues I need to work out, but that's a whole other can of worms.
Point being...I want to get to know him. I've never really spoken with him before. I tried to once, and he just turned away really quickly after he had answered my question. Didn't seem too interested.
How can I get to know him? Or get his attention? I've been in three relationships before, but they were all instigated by me. I felt confident enough to do it because they were kind of socially below me and I had known them for quite some time beforehand, as bitchy as that sounds.
My problem is that if I think a guy's cute or could be a nice guy to date, I get really nervous and shy and lock up. It's hard to be myself and I automatically think he won't like me or he'll think I'm weird, unattractive, boring, etc. I've never had good social skills and I'm lost as to how I should go about things. I don't know what to say to him. This would be my first time purposely trying to make friends with someone and my first time trying to get to know someone I'm initially attracted to.