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wolfshadow
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Since coming to this site I've started to appreciate that some of the things I've felt were missing are probably non-existent.
A good example is this - I've always had this odd suppostion that the majority of people within society are interlinked by a collective wavelength, or an invisible social chemistry, that I am unable to tap into. My experiences here have changed that perception. What I mistook for intigration and acceptence, might conceivably be defined as respect, attention and even adulation. The latter three are things that need to be earnt, if that is what a person desires, and I was crazy to imagine that their absence was indicative of universal rejection! That, sadly is exactly the sort of idea that can manifest itself when insecurity is not challenged by reality.
A cold truth emerges, it is the reponsibilty of the individual to manage their self esteem. It's not nice and it's not always fair but that's just the way it is. I can't believe that I didn't see it before now.
A big thankyou to everyone at aloneylife for this because collectively, you have helped me expose and start to deal with a facet of immaturity that has long been to my detriment.
A good example is this - I've always had this odd suppostion that the majority of people within society are interlinked by a collective wavelength, or an invisible social chemistry, that I am unable to tap into. My experiences here have changed that perception. What I mistook for intigration and acceptence, might conceivably be defined as respect, attention and even adulation. The latter three are things that need to be earnt, if that is what a person desires, and I was crazy to imagine that their absence was indicative of universal rejection! That, sadly is exactly the sort of idea that can manifest itself when insecurity is not challenged by reality.
A cold truth emerges, it is the reponsibilty of the individual to manage their self esteem. It's not nice and it's not always fair but that's just the way it is. I can't believe that I didn't see it before now.
A big thankyou to everyone at aloneylife for this because collectively, you have helped me expose and start to deal with a facet of immaturity that has long been to my detriment.