One thing that I get in trouble with is who pays for the date. I generally approach it as whoever asks the other out is inviting them. So I met someone and she asked me out for a first date. The date went well and when the bill came I broke it down in half. She was so offended she left in a hurry after that. It was a deal breaker that she had to pay her half. Frankly, I wouldn't have minded paying but the attitude that I had to pay was a real turn off. There was another woman who I wouldn't let her pay just because I enjoyed her so much it was a treat for me to treat her. But she at least offered and I appreciated that.