Trust

[TalosNB]

I have had one serious relationship in my life it lasted a year and a half before i found out she had cheated on me five times, and i only found from here because a friend of hers threatened to tell me if she didnt, and now im worried i will be plagued with trust issues if i do ever find another person to love me

 

[suna]

those who lie and cheat only make themselves unworthy, and unworthy ones shouldn't change the way you are.

 

[SadRabbit]

That is true. Love is about being honest to each other. =)

 

[jales]

trust issues arent always a bad thing; just dont let them get out of control. remember that no matter what u do u can never be certain that a person id trustworthy .. at the end of the day it always comes down to faith. also trust take time to develope

 

[Presence]

TalosNB find out why she did it, it will bring you closer to your real purpose in life.

 

[TalosNB]

I did find out its because she had no self control, i new about the first 2 times and we were working it out and i thought it was working then bam it wasnt

 

[evilkitten]

I've had two very serious and long relationships and both broke trust so I can understand what you mean. I started to look at the situations differently after the second time and instead of feeling bad for myself and letting it get me down, I tried to find out why it happened and if it had to do with the people I was attracted to...such as I figured out that I was attracted to controlling guys...I was confusing the control with love. If you learn from the situation and use it to help you move on, it'll be a little easier to handle. It still hurts more than anything but you'll soon realize that you're not responsible for others choices.

 

[TalosNB]

It was prob the most painful thing i have ever felt it even hurst more then being run over by a horse and each time i found out it didnt make it hurt anyless