Hi im an engineering undergraduate studying in final year. There is something wrong with my life. I dont really remember when this really started but i guess i had mental break down ever since i started to go uni. It may be a different reason too, but i cant figure out what the cause is. In my childhood i wasn't a social character but i enjoyed my life and never hated my life. But things got different from the past 4 or 5 years. I started to feel i was left behind and i was not being the person that i really should be. I quit waiting for someone to make me feel good, make me happy and successful but after ages nobody came. So i convinced myself that i am the one who should do something about this may be im missing something, well known fact that others know so they are happy but im not. I did lots of experiments too.. I acted like a cool dude all the time in my university and it just stressed me out alot even though i was bet popular. It didnt work actually. Now i act like a loner who is an inside person yet this depressed me alot. I don't have a social life at all now. I'm in a band and with my band members i really had a good time but we are all too busy to get togethre and jam some cool music. So the band things doesnt seem working either. I dont have a girlfriend now. I had one but that was also over the phone type of relationship and she cheated me all that time. It was a one year long affair and we never got a chance to meet. No wonder she didnt want to since she was playing around. So now im bit worried of starting an affair plus i dont know where to start. I dont want to hook up with someone through facebook or a social network.I expect it to be normal social encounter but i never get that chance. So from recently i convinced myself im better off without a girl. But i wanted to hang out with my own set of cool friends and enjoy the life. Ive been at home for almost a week now and that drives me crazy. I want to go out but have no place to go. Im not from a rich family and i dont get inveted to parties so my social life inthat aspect is zero. Is this normal? Im trying so hard to get over this frustration about life but life seems pulling from leg. Now my heart is burning with frustration. I dont wanna be like this forever. Sorry for my bad english
P.S I had medications for anxiety and depression i was an insomniac for some time. All these started with a relationship or may be i started a relationship to get over this not sure what came first. The best part is nobody believes i dont have a girlfriend i have to admit that i do look good. Still im single desperate home boy. Please advice me
P.S I had medications for anxiety and depression i was an insomniac for some time. All these started with a relationship or may be i started a relationship to get over this not sure what came first. The best part is nobody believes i dont have a girlfriend i have to admit that i do look good. Still im single desperate home boy. Please advice me