@ Lippy_kid: it's hard seeing things from his point of view when i feel misunderstood and in need of emotional support. i get what you're trying say and it sure is some serious food for my thoughts. but in the heat of the moment, all is forgotten and my feelings of hopelessness and sadness take over completely.
i'm with him, so obviously, there are things about him i love, and in the past, the 'annoying' things were easy to overlook coz i had so much going for me. but now that i'm stuck at home and he's my only adult interaction, every little thing becomes insurmountable. or so it seems.
thanks for trying to give me much needed perspective on the matter.
i should work on my communication skills with him but having been through so much (and i don't only mean childbirth), i feel he's the one who should be making the effort.
9006: thanks for listening
that's all i need sometimes, a friendly ear
ladyforsaken: thank you for the much needed hugs! <3 yeah, i need to somehow suppress the word 'hormones' from my mind. complete male shut down. lol. well, with my partner anyway.
Sarah_Lbnz: you speak to that part of me that gets really, really mad at him for being the way he is. argh, so annoying. that being said, i always knew he was this way, just thought he might grow out of it eventually. 3 years and a baby down the line, i think it's time i stop expecting an improvement in that part of his personality.
Shipster0958: congratulations you yummy mummy! well done to you
mine's almost 4 months old now. is this your first child? if yes, then please don't hesitate to get in touch if you need advice with anything. but if this isn't your first, then maybe i'll be PM'ing you! lol
Edward W: is it possible that sometimes, a guy doesn't even realise WHAT he's doing wrong? and when the chick points it out ... it still doesn't make any sense AT ALL?!