I was working away one time for a long time (around 8 months) but just before I went (about 2 months), an old friend of mine got back in touch with me, it was bad timing really but we spent time together before I went and stayed in touch over the time I was away.
Basically we used to go out years back but we split, it wasn't over bad terms so everything was cool, she got with someone and he didn't like us speaking (cause we got on pretty well - so I thought anyway) so inevitably we slowly stopped talking, so she split with him a few years later an that's how we ended up talking again.
We would speak at least once a week and I'd call her a few times a week, things were going well and she even said that we could try again once I got back, I dunno what the hell happened since then but communication was reducing and when I'd call her sometimes she wouldn't answer (in comparison to the way she always answered), anyway a few months later she admitted she had been spending time with somebody else, I was really hurt by this too and I did express some anger in a letter. There was some bad contact between both of us for a bit and eventually I stopped speaking because I was so angry.
So she knew when I was back and after a few weeks I phoned her one night and asked if she wanted to meet up, she told me that she had plans and she wouldn't, but it was the way she was speaking to me, she hadn't been like it since I started speaking to her again, I just couldn't understand what had gone on, so after that I told her to forget it, I don't wanna talk anymore and since then we haven't spoke.
I still feel so angry about what went on, and I don't think I could forgive her. I know you're not supposed to dwell on things or hold grudges an all that but I've never felt so dissapointed, if this was someone I didn't know too well I probably wouldn't be that bothered, it's the fact that we had a history and I'd never heard her this way before, I really liked her and she sounded like she really liked me back, I felt as though we got on so well, but it was like I was there until someone better came along, or she got bored of waiting. But if someone claims they really like you, can this happen?
It left me questioning the way some women talk (That's not a dig at women), some throw there apparent feelings at you but then don't seem to give you two thoughts and move on. Was she lying? Can you have feelings for someone and then switch just like that? It's a mystery.
It's not just people you meet online.
Sorry if I banged on, I've never told that story to anybody else.
