MiyuZen
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ok so I have issues with this man I really like, but we are close friends, I also have issues with my best friend, I am beginning to think I expect too much from people but I don't think I do, so I wanted to come on here to ask others what you thought. maybe I am blinding myself by something like insecurity.
I met my best friend 4 years ago, she was going through a painful divorce and I helped there though it, I introduced her to all of my friends and a social activity which I was heavily involved in. we traveled everywhere together to events and she gained a lot of self confidence and I was happy for her. There was this one acquaintance of mine she really liked so I introduced her to him and they started to hang out, at that time I was having some family problems and I was really depressed and she told me she didn't want my negativity to influence her so she would leave me to deal with it, I felt so hurt and alone. she then ended up going out with this person and then completely cut me off and started going everywhere with him, I can understand if you want to spend time with your bf but she made no effort at all for me and I felt like she has replaced me in my own social scene. the places she goes to with her bf they don't go alone but with mutual friends and it's places we used to always go together, I dont know why they can't invite me I won't be with them all of the time, I don't have anyone to go with any longer and I feel lost. At the same time there was this man I really liked but he doesn't want to be with me and I am so hurt by that but I feel like I have no one to turn too everyone is just living their lives. I asked my friend to travel with me to this event next month so it could be like the old times, she told me she will probably see me there. I can't believe things have changed so much and I feel like I've lost my best friend.. I've been told by others this is normal when ppl get into relationships, but I have other friends in relationships who don't cut their friends off, I am not asking for too much her, I just feel really used and now im no longer needed I've just been forgotten.
I met my best friend 4 years ago, she was going through a painful divorce and I helped there though it, I introduced her to all of my friends and a social activity which I was heavily involved in. we traveled everywhere together to events and she gained a lot of self confidence and I was happy for her. There was this one acquaintance of mine she really liked so I introduced her to him and they started to hang out, at that time I was having some family problems and I was really depressed and she told me she didn't want my negativity to influence her so she would leave me to deal with it, I felt so hurt and alone. she then ended up going out with this person and then completely cut me off and started going everywhere with him, I can understand if you want to spend time with your bf but she made no effort at all for me and I felt like she has replaced me in my own social scene. the places she goes to with her bf they don't go alone but with mutual friends and it's places we used to always go together, I dont know why they can't invite me I won't be with them all of the time, I don't have anyone to go with any longer and I feel lost. At the same time there was this man I really liked but he doesn't want to be with me and I am so hurt by that but I feel like I have no one to turn too everyone is just living their lives. I asked my friend to travel with me to this event next month so it could be like the old times, she told me she will probably see me there. I can't believe things have changed so much and I feel like I've lost my best friend.. I've been told by others this is normal when ppl get into relationships, but I have other friends in relationships who don't cut their friends off, I am not asking for too much her, I just feel really used and now im no longer needed I've just been forgotten.