Broken_n_Lost
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Now I'm posting this thread in the relationship forum because it was the first ever relationship I ever witnessed and encountered. The HATE from my father towards my mother and the HATE he portrayed to his children...
Ever since I can remember all I felt from my dad was disgust and disappointment that I wasn't born a son and hate because I loved my mother more. The first ever relationship taught me how to feel humiliated; he had a knack for it, he could and would use anything to humiliate us, the way we walked, the way we sat, the way we ate, he just hated us. Everything we did was wrong. Everything and I was an A pupil, I tried my best we all did, but nothing made him happy. I have a (******* of a) brother and still my dad treated him like crap, so how could it be just the gender thing?? He HATED my mother, my poor mother, she has gone twisted now, she hates me too, I look the most like my dad coz I'm the oldest but to be fair, I don't blame her, why shouldn't she hate me. I have his anger and his stubbornness and some of his HATE. He made us feel worthless, lower than dirt, I use to wish for death from the age of 5. He made my mum depressed to the point where she would just sit there and stare into nothingness, I had to take care of my siblings. Now they are all gone, my dad has remarried and is so happy, while I am alone and HATED. The only one that cares is my youngest sister who will be leaving soon, she is joining the army and who could blame her, I would go if I could. But I am unwanted and all I know is how to be isolated, alone, sad and angry at the world. I calmed my anger down the past 5 years but I still feel the HATE.
I cant be in a relationship because I don't want to be like him nor do I want to be like her, so l choose to be alone...but I cant lie and say it dont effect me. Sometimes when I sit on a bus from work, I cry and Im not the crying type but I just feel so messed in the head, they say it gets easier with time, BULLSHIT!!! Who ever says that is on crack!!! I ******* try all the time with my messed up family but nothing works, nothing...
Ever since I can remember all I felt from my dad was disgust and disappointment that I wasn't born a son and hate because I loved my mother more. The first ever relationship taught me how to feel humiliated; he had a knack for it, he could and would use anything to humiliate us, the way we walked, the way we sat, the way we ate, he just hated us. Everything we did was wrong. Everything and I was an A pupil, I tried my best we all did, but nothing made him happy. I have a (******* of a) brother and still my dad treated him like crap, so how could it be just the gender thing?? He HATED my mother, my poor mother, she has gone twisted now, she hates me too, I look the most like my dad coz I'm the oldest but to be fair, I don't blame her, why shouldn't she hate me. I have his anger and his stubbornness and some of his HATE. He made us feel worthless, lower than dirt, I use to wish for death from the age of 5. He made my mum depressed to the point where she would just sit there and stare into nothingness, I had to take care of my siblings. Now they are all gone, my dad has remarried and is so happy, while I am alone and HATED. The only one that cares is my youngest sister who will be leaving soon, she is joining the army and who could blame her, I would go if I could. But I am unwanted and all I know is how to be isolated, alone, sad and angry at the world. I calmed my anger down the past 5 years but I still feel the HATE.
I cant be in a relationship because I don't want to be like him nor do I want to be like her, so l choose to be alone...but I cant lie and say it dont effect me. Sometimes when I sit on a bus from work, I cry and Im not the crying type but I just feel so messed in the head, they say it gets easier with time, BULLSHIT!!! Who ever says that is on crack!!! I ******* try all the time with my messed up family but nothing works, nothing...