Recent content by Sam_Wright_1988

I realised today I am afraid of life. Not because I am afraid of life, but because my mum was afraid for me. She told me today, how scared she was raising a child with diabetes, especially a stubborn child like me. I love my mum but her fear is always with me. I keep asking myself whether I...

Thank you all for the wonderful replies! After asking these questions I came across my answer. I have intentionally removed distractions and I feel horrible but bear with me. I am scared and lonely but at the same time, I realise that is my own fault. It is something I can control. Admitting...

Hi, I like to- one more time -ask a couple of questions and then get on with my life. I am so very stuck! I find myself in a strange position, as ever. I have sort of a life but a few personality flaws that are ruining my life in the present. It is as if I can't go forward and try to ruin my...

Thanks for the reply. Turns out, the date was way too confusing (I don't know what to do with myself and our past dates got in the way). She thought it might be a date, because my signals were really, really vague and I thought it was. I haven't been clear to her and the reason I was nervous, is...

Hi everyone! I have a question concerning dating because I don't get it. First of all, I haven't been in a relationship for five years. Nor did I make love, did I kiss a girl, whatever. By now, I am twenty-five! Second of all, and this took me years to figure out: I am a nice guy! I am...

Hi everyone, I have been active on this forum for quite some time. I took a break though and now I am back. I have a bit of a dilemma. I am 25 years old and the last time I had a girlfriend is, well, 7 years ago. Now, that doesn't come as a total surprise. I have been very lonely. I didn't...

Hello everyone, I have a question about health and confidence. I am diabetic, and when my 'blood sugars' are within normal range, I am an extremely confident person. I have struggled with being confident for ages because I just couldn't figure out what went wrong: I felt horrible most of...

I lived next to a couple of sorority girls. I don't like them, even though we got along well. I always felt like something was missing, and that they gossiped a lot, putting other people down. They were very judgmental and didn't have much to say. I also think they were sort of insecure (hence...

I told her, explained myself and wow, I feel, not only relieved, but very, very happy. She took it well, and it was nice to hear I had been right all along: yeah, she doesn't look at me that way, but it was not like I was out of question. We have been friends for so long- to her -it just seemed...

I remember being on a party and there was a somewhat insecure girl. She came up to me and asked me why I sat alone all the time (admittedly, it was intentional, I just sort of tune out at times, but looking back on it, I don't know whether that is completely true). She told me I was a nice...

Hey everyone, thanks, great advice! I've spoken to her and we'll meet next week, have some dinner and talk things through. Told her to come prepared, I suspect she already knows what I want to talk about As for my friendship, no, I don't want to lose her. She was always there for me when...

Hey everyone, just had a difficult moment, but also an important one You see, I have a friend, I've known her for eight years. She's an absolutely beautiful, great girl. I really enjoy our friendship, a bit too much I might add Thing is, she sees me as a friend. Today we had dinner and I- I...

Funny topic I don't really believe people can be 'your' type I mean sure there's chemistry but it's something you can sort of consciously 'create' Love is about learning to love someone, and I also think it's about giving: you see a pretty girl, but she's slightly insecure, maybe you can make...

Good point: when you try to grow, results are always slow and you'll make mistakes! That's the point ;), I still have a hard time accepting that as well Same applies to me, but I'd rather learn than wait around (these days at least), I am struggling with that too. But it's all just a matter of...

Hey everyone, it's been a while since I last posted a message here. I didn't post a lot of messages anyway, but it was nice to re-read all the comments First of all, life's better than it used to be. I still feel lonely from time to time, but I've discovered I have a lot of friends and more...