AnonymousMe
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Put yourselves in my shoes, imagine you're someone that's:
1) An introvert 26-year-old male.
2) Living in Mexico.
3) A picky eater.
4) Friendless, but that can socialize to a degree.
5) Without a girlfriend and that's lost hope in getting one.
6) Can't drive yet (I'll do when I buy a Smart car).
7) With limited interests, don't like what's popular.
8) Doesn't watch TV that much, no sports, no TV series, movies, etc.
9) Tries to not spend much on needs, including clothes, so the bills don't come with a high debt, save for internet.
10) Doesn't have a cellphone, nor Facebook, etc.
11) Not very motivated in improving myself, at least financially, but I am trying physically again with racquetball.
12) No longer studying, without plans of returning to College.
13) Serious most of the time.
As some of you already may know, I'm currently "helping" my 57-year-old dad in his job as an administrator for his wood factory, which is in Mexico, my little brother also helps him with clients that purchase our merchandise, who are in the U.S.; he's still going to school and hopes to graduate as an interior designer. Excluding the earnings the workers get, the pay always varies for our family, we could get $200 as a whole in one week and get $500 the following one, it all depends on how much we sell. The thing is, I'm not really good at the job and I also hate it, because it prevents me from... well, being happy! That's what I think, at least. I have this mindset that if I work anywhere, even if it's a low-paying job, I'll be able to have a fresh start with new people, hopefully around my age, be open to their suggestions, explore the world and heck, maybe even meet someone special. All the workers in the factory are in their 30s or more and married, everyone knows me too; I'm the most unpopular one in the place. I've been working in the place for around a year and I don't think I've learned much, besides the basics, it also doesn't help that my dad wants to retire at 60, hopefully my brother is graduated by that point. What about me though?
My question is, what would you choose people? Would you stay in a job that pays well, but that makes you unhappy or would you prefer a small one that's more to your liking? Which one's the best option for me?
1) An introvert 26-year-old male.
2) Living in Mexico.
3) A picky eater.
4) Friendless, but that can socialize to a degree.
5) Without a girlfriend and that's lost hope in getting one.
6) Can't drive yet (I'll do when I buy a Smart car).
7) With limited interests, don't like what's popular.
8) Doesn't watch TV that much, no sports, no TV series, movies, etc.
9) Tries to not spend much on needs, including clothes, so the bills don't come with a high debt, save for internet.
10) Doesn't have a cellphone, nor Facebook, etc.
11) Not very motivated in improving myself, at least financially, but I am trying physically again with racquetball.
12) No longer studying, without plans of returning to College.
13) Serious most of the time.
As some of you already may know, I'm currently "helping" my 57-year-old dad in his job as an administrator for his wood factory, which is in Mexico, my little brother also helps him with clients that purchase our merchandise, who are in the U.S.; he's still going to school and hopes to graduate as an interior designer. Excluding the earnings the workers get, the pay always varies for our family, we could get $200 as a whole in one week and get $500 the following one, it all depends on how much we sell. The thing is, I'm not really good at the job and I also hate it, because it prevents me from... well, being happy! That's what I think, at least. I have this mindset that if I work anywhere, even if it's a low-paying job, I'll be able to have a fresh start with new people, hopefully around my age, be open to their suggestions, explore the world and heck, maybe even meet someone special. All the workers in the factory are in their 30s or more and married, everyone knows me too; I'm the most unpopular one in the place. I've been working in the place for around a year and I don't think I've learned much, besides the basics, it also doesn't help that my dad wants to retire at 60, hopefully my brother is graduated by that point. What about me though?
My question is, what would you choose people? Would you stay in a job that pays well, but that makes you unhappy or would you prefer a small one that's more to your liking? Which one's the best option for me?