There are billions of people in the world, and those that are unhappy are the ones who have decided to be unhappy. If I go into a sombrero store I am doing that because I want a sombrero. And if I feel bad because I was bullied, I am feeling bad because I want to.
Being bullied is nothing like rape, because rape is something that traumatizes people. If you are raped you can go to a support group to start putting your life back together. Even if it doesn't work, you are making it your choice whether you are miserable or not. Bully support groups don't exist because people whom are bullied are not traumatized, unless they choose to be.
I like being happy, so I choose to be. So if you're miserable you have no one but yourself to blame. Bullied people should get a job and a relationship, and then they'll be happy. But they are just too lazy.
This is something unhappy people need to hear, whether they like it or not. But they'll probably just ignore the truth because they want to be miserable.