I'm starting to become annoyed with my parent.
I'm 18, and I got my driver's license about a month ago and i've been regularly driving to school for almost two weeks. I got my own gas, and I drove to my friend's house over the weekend, which is about a 30 minute drive.
When I got my license, my parent described two rules to me:
1) No driving with someone else in the car (IE, I can't drive friends places)
2) I can't ride in a friend's car (friends can't drive me places)
And that's all she said.
So, today, there was this teacher-vs-student softball game that my high school put on, and I wanted to go. My friend was playing and a lot of people that i'm sort of friendly with were going to be there. I'd like to become better friends with them.
I decided that I wanted to go and set up a plan with my friend where I'd follow him to the field in my car. The plan was made today.
Then I started thinking about whether or not i would be able to go because of parental permission. I was going to call her with my cell, but she's at work and she can't answer her phone a lot. If she picked up, she'd've said something like "you're bothering me with this right now?". She's said that kind of thing when I've asked to go to friends' houses before. I didn't want to make her angry at me for bothering her, so I decided not to call and just forget about the game.
So here's the problem: I really want to confront her and ask a bunch of questions about her rules. I'm sick of having to guess at what she'll say so I won't make her angry with me. Like, "If I decide to go someplace after school, do I have to call you and ask permission, or do i just have to leave a message about where I'll be at?" and "Where can I go, and where can't I?"
How can I do this without causing a massive problem?
I'm 18, and I got my driver's license about a month ago and i've been regularly driving to school for almost two weeks. I got my own gas, and I drove to my friend's house over the weekend, which is about a 30 minute drive.
When I got my license, my parent described two rules to me:
1) No driving with someone else in the car (IE, I can't drive friends places)
2) I can't ride in a friend's car (friends can't drive me places)
And that's all she said.
So, today, there was this teacher-vs-student softball game that my high school put on, and I wanted to go. My friend was playing and a lot of people that i'm sort of friendly with were going to be there. I'd like to become better friends with them.
I decided that I wanted to go and set up a plan with my friend where I'd follow him to the field in my car. The plan was made today.
Then I started thinking about whether or not i would be able to go because of parental permission. I was going to call her with my cell, but she's at work and she can't answer her phone a lot. If she picked up, she'd've said something like "you're bothering me with this right now?". She's said that kind of thing when I've asked to go to friends' houses before. I didn't want to make her angry at me for bothering her, so I decided not to call and just forget about the game.
So here's the problem: I really want to confront her and ask a bunch of questions about her rules. I'm sick of having to guess at what she'll say so I won't make her angry with me. Like, "If I decide to go someplace after school, do I have to call you and ask permission, or do i just have to leave a message about where I'll be at?" and "Where can I go, and where can't I?"
How can I do this without causing a massive problem?