abbeyroad92
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I'm 21, and I'm just about to start my final year of university. I've still never had a girlfriend, and it really bothers me. I really want to be in a relationship. I want to fall in love.
I went on my first date ever earlier this year. The most I did was kiss her on the cheek. We went on 4 dates in total, but it didn't work out.
I really don't want to finish university, turn 22, and still be alone. I'm a virgin and haven't even kissed a girl on the lips before. I want to be in a relationship not only for my own sanity, but also to avoid looking like a loser to the people around me. I get so embarrassed every time I think of what my parents must be thinking about me.
I had a big crush on a girl at work. We talked non-stop and texted eachother every second of the day it seemed like. We had all the same interests and had the exact same sense of humour. I really thought she was going to be my first girlfriend. She always said how I was her best friend at work. She treated me different than any of the other guys.
I more or less told her that I liked her. I mentioned how people at work were wondering what was going on between us. She told me that she finds it annoying when people assume a guy and girl are a couple.
I was heartbroken when I heard this. Now I feel more lonely and hopeless than ever. I've had the exact same feelings of loneliness for the last 3 years. I remember posting in forums and message boards online 3 years ago about the exact same issues. Nothing has changed.
I went on my first date ever earlier this year. The most I did was kiss her on the cheek. We went on 4 dates in total, but it didn't work out.
I really don't want to finish university, turn 22, and still be alone. I'm a virgin and haven't even kissed a girl on the lips before. I want to be in a relationship not only for my own sanity, but also to avoid looking like a loser to the people around me. I get so embarrassed every time I think of what my parents must be thinking about me.
I had a big crush on a girl at work. We talked non-stop and texted eachother every second of the day it seemed like. We had all the same interests and had the exact same sense of humour. I really thought she was going to be my first girlfriend. She always said how I was her best friend at work. She treated me different than any of the other guys.
I more or less told her that I liked her. I mentioned how people at work were wondering what was going on between us. She told me that she finds it annoying when people assume a guy and girl are a couple.
I was heartbroken when I heard this. Now I feel more lonely and hopeless than ever. I've had the exact same feelings of loneliness for the last 3 years. I remember posting in forums and message boards online 3 years ago about the exact same issues. Nothing has changed.