I have dealt with loneliness a good portion of my life. I'm currently struggling a lot with loneliness because I have a hard time making friends and connecting with people. Some of my issues are partly rooted in the fact a lot of my relatives used to leave me out of different events and the few friends that I have sometimes leave me out of things.
I have struggled with being left out a lot in the past couple of years because I have been depressed. I have tried to seek help on different online forums. I tried to seek help or advice on two forums that are heavily focused on women and when I posted about issues about not being apart of different events and being the left out, many of the woman told me this, "Life is what you make of it." I also posted on a couple of Christian forums about this and I got posters making similar statements.
I do agree with that saying to an extent but sometimes it hurts me that people can't see that we all need some help from others in enjoying and living a full life. Some people can't understand how hard it for those who have hard time blending and connecting with people on a social level to try and enjoy things when they are alone and unsure of how to join or ask to be apart of a social group.
I have struggled with being left out a lot in the past couple of years because I have been depressed. I have tried to seek help on different online forums. I tried to seek help or advice on two forums that are heavily focused on women and when I posted about issues about not being apart of different events and being the left out, many of the woman told me this, "Life is what you make of it." I also posted on a couple of Christian forums about this and I got posters making similar statements.
I do agree with that saying to an extent but sometimes it hurts me that people can't see that we all need some help from others in enjoying and living a full life. Some people can't understand how hard it for those who have hard time blending and connecting with people on a social level to try and enjoy things when they are alone and unsure of how to join or ask to be apart of a social group.