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So,
Long story short, I did mention this on another thread, but I thought I'd explain it again. In the summer I joined this whatsapp group through this girl I met online on the meetup website. We had a couple of meetups - met up on two occasions - once for pizza and again for games.
Anyway, I said something on the main whatsapp group that got me booted without getting a chance to explain that what I said was in no way malicious (something about people who join but never post). This girl who I had an online 'pen pal' type friendship over the summer period abruptly blocked all contact with me.
I had actually got her out of my mind, but I was at work today - on my induction - and my mind started to wonder when it got a bit quiet. This girl just popped up in my head, and I started to feel sad about what had happened in September.
Does anybody else have this problem where they seem to ruminate over someone they've lost contact with? What do you do to deal with it?
Long story short, I did mention this on another thread, but I thought I'd explain it again. In the summer I joined this whatsapp group through this girl I met online on the meetup website. We had a couple of meetups - met up on two occasions - once for pizza and again for games.
Anyway, I said something on the main whatsapp group that got me booted without getting a chance to explain that what I said was in no way malicious (something about people who join but never post). This girl who I had an online 'pen pal' type friendship over the summer period abruptly blocked all contact with me.
I had actually got her out of my mind, but I was at work today - on my induction - and my mind started to wonder when it got a bit quiet. This girl just popped up in my head, and I started to feel sad about what had happened in September.
Does anybody else have this problem where they seem to ruminate over someone they've lost contact with? What do you do to deal with it?