Would it bother you if your significant other had crushes on celebrities? To any extent? What about to the point where they get jealous/irked when they find out "their it girl" of the moment has started dating someone?
I am not talking about simply finding people attractive. I am talking about fantasizing about them, caring/knowing about their "lives" (whatever the media tells you), talking about them..just randomly mentioning things about them in a conversation, defending them when people say something against them type thing. I feel like the person is investing too much emotionally to this when they should be investing more into their own real life relationship.
When I am in a relationship I am fully committed to that person. I don't have crushes on anyone even celebrities. They don't enter my mind. In fact I have gotten past celebrity crushes period...even while single. It just seems so pointless and childish to me.
This reminds me of this married woman with children who has a thing for that Twilight guy I have never understood this type of thing. There was this girl who was obsessed with this rock star and followed him around, would talk to him, mention how hot and great he was allll the time etc. I asked her if she would date him if she ever got the chance and she said "noo I love my bf!". Didn't seem like it to me. (I am referring to monogamous relationships with these examples..not trying to bash on different types like open relationships etc)There are people that would like the chance to be with the celebrity. Sometimes their partner will allow them to be with them sexually if they ever met them. I don't understand that though. They are still people (just famous) why would that be an exception?
No offense to anyone but I have never understood this. Some people even say that of course people usually find celebrities more attractive than their own partners. Why? Just because of status, fame, because they have tons of makeup? I always preferred whoever I was with at the moment in real life.. I could care less about a dolled up celeb Regular non famous people can be just as (if not more) attractive in any sense.
I am not talking about simply finding people attractive. I am talking about fantasizing about them, caring/knowing about their "lives" (whatever the media tells you), talking about them..just randomly mentioning things about them in a conversation, defending them when people say something against them type thing. I feel like the person is investing too much emotionally to this when they should be investing more into their own real life relationship.
When I am in a relationship I am fully committed to that person. I don't have crushes on anyone even celebrities. They don't enter my mind. In fact I have gotten past celebrity crushes period...even while single. It just seems so pointless and childish to me.
This reminds me of this married woman with children who has a thing for that Twilight guy I have never understood this type of thing. There was this girl who was obsessed with this rock star and followed him around, would talk to him, mention how hot and great he was allll the time etc. I asked her if she would date him if she ever got the chance and she said "noo I love my bf!". Didn't seem like it to me. (I am referring to monogamous relationships with these examples..not trying to bash on different types like open relationships etc)There are people that would like the chance to be with the celebrity. Sometimes their partner will allow them to be with them sexually if they ever met them. I don't understand that though. They are still people (just famous) why would that be an exception?
No offense to anyone but I have never understood this. Some people even say that of course people usually find celebrities more attractive than their own partners. Why? Just because of status, fame, because they have tons of makeup? I always preferred whoever I was with at the moment in real life.. I could care less about a dolled up celeb Regular non famous people can be just as (if not more) attractive in any sense.