DrFlashman
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I'm 31, and live in the midwest U.S. I ended a relationship about 2.5 months ago. I was the one who left, and I was okay with it for a few weeks, but now I'm really regretting it and feeling depressed/lonely.
Weird thing is, I'm not usually a "lonely" person, even when I am alone. I have a job, I have some friends, and I have outside interests. I've always kind of prided myself on being self-sustaining: "Hey, I'm tough, I don't 'need' anyone." But now...not so sure about that.
I've made a few feeble attempts to contact my ex, but she hasn't really responded. I feel like she has probably moved on quicker than I have, and that makes me even sadder. I've thought about writing her a letter and laying everything out on the table...but then again, what if she has moved on and she's happy about it? Then I would just be making her feel weird.
Weird thing is, I'm not usually a "lonely" person, even when I am alone. I have a job, I have some friends, and I have outside interests. I've always kind of prided myself on being self-sustaining: "Hey, I'm tough, I don't 'need' anyone." But now...not so sure about that.
I've made a few feeble attempts to contact my ex, but she hasn't really responded. I feel like she has probably moved on quicker than I have, and that makes me even sadder. I've thought about writing her a letter and laying everything out on the table...but then again, what if she has moved on and she's happy about it? Then I would just be making her feel weird.