Pheenix
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The more I shape my fantasy super-social me, the more energetic and genki he seems, spontaneous, bouncy.
So I thought that development of my ideal self was healthy, but then I keep hitting these scattered sections about how anxiety makes you too frantic and talk to fast. So I start wondering whether my fantasy is disharmonic and based on anxiety. This belief is propelled by the fact that I haven't beaten my fear of failure, which some say causes erratic social behavior.
What say you? Picturing an energetic social self, is that healthy or a sign that you still have trouble?
So I thought that development of my ideal self was healthy, but then I keep hitting these scattered sections about how anxiety makes you too frantic and talk to fast. So I start wondering whether my fantasy is disharmonic and based on anxiety. This belief is propelled by the fact that I haven't beaten my fear of failure, which some say causes erratic social behavior.
What say you? Picturing an energetic social self, is that healthy or a sign that you still have trouble?