Aisha said:If I were faced with that problem I suppose I would just say, 'Oh but don't you remember we had that 'insert really exciting event/activity child enjoys' to go to on that day too?' It wouldn't change the fact that they were excluded, but it could soften the blow for them if they're young enough for that.
I been excluded from social life and stuff too for quite some years and being shy and somewhat introvert didn't help it either. I also ended up with wrong people who actually don't like me and neither do i acutally hehe, so i liked it more alone then being with people that don't like you or put you down. I'm slowly doing activities again but it takes a while to connect with people.TheSkaFish said:I would say to anyone dealing with exclusion to keep trying to find your group through following your interests and beliefs. Someone will click with that eventually. And don't worry about the major peer groups. All you can do is be as friendly as you can (but not a doormat, of course). Improve yourself where you can, but also don't mistake self-improvement for covering up who you are. Chances are, there's nothing wrong with your interests and you don't have to change them. Just keep looking for the others.
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