alonelyshyboy
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Hello there,
I am a shy guy and like a lot of you, lead a somewhat "lonely" life.
I am dying to meet new people, get invited to parties, potentially make new friends, but I just don't know how. I have maybe a couple of good friends, but it really feels like I have no friends at times. Sure, I think that these people are great to talk to about anything, but they don't really want to just 'hang out' and stuff.
I am not seeking a relationship with a girl at this point in time because that isn't the solution to my problem - lack of friendship/activity partners. Although, I have to admit that this somewhat eternal singleness makes me feel down at times. I think I am worthy of finding a lovely girl, but yeah....
I really used to enjoy going out on the weekends to clubs, bars and parties when I was younger; but I haven't done any of these in about two years. I am getting older and want to enjoy my youth while I still can. I used to go out with acquaintances from university at the time, but we have drifted apart. I look on facebook and always see people on my list who have tonnes of pictures of themselves out partying and such, I wish I was doing that too.
I don't have too many hobbies, and the ones that I do have are rather geeky/male orientated - I have an interest in tinkering with anything mechanical or technological. I do go to the gym, but that isn't really a good place to socialize.
I am a soon to be working professional, but am quite scared about making a bad impression in the office. I am frightened that my shyness (extreme in some cases) will prevent me from making a good working relationship with my co-workers.
Regards,
alonelyshyboy
I am a shy guy and like a lot of you, lead a somewhat "lonely" life.
I am dying to meet new people, get invited to parties, potentially make new friends, but I just don't know how. I have maybe a couple of good friends, but it really feels like I have no friends at times. Sure, I think that these people are great to talk to about anything, but they don't really want to just 'hang out' and stuff.
I am not seeking a relationship with a girl at this point in time because that isn't the solution to my problem - lack of friendship/activity partners. Although, I have to admit that this somewhat eternal singleness makes me feel down at times. I think I am worthy of finding a lovely girl, but yeah....
I really used to enjoy going out on the weekends to clubs, bars and parties when I was younger; but I haven't done any of these in about two years. I am getting older and want to enjoy my youth while I still can. I used to go out with acquaintances from university at the time, but we have drifted apart. I look on facebook and always see people on my list who have tonnes of pictures of themselves out partying and such, I wish I was doing that too.
I don't have too many hobbies, and the ones that I do have are rather geeky/male orientated - I have an interest in tinkering with anything mechanical or technological. I do go to the gym, but that isn't really a good place to socialize.
I am a soon to be working professional, but am quite scared about making a bad impression in the office. I am frightened that my shyness (extreme in some cases) will prevent me from making a good working relationship with my co-workers.
Regards,
alonelyshyboy