Social Knight
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Hello friends
I'm in my early 30s. I am a normal guy who had no friends in my 20s and it made me really low self-esteem and confidence. But now I feel confident and strong, just lack social life.
I was a quiet guy in high school and had bad breath. Yes bad breath that's why I stay quiet.
So short story in high school I always by myself and didn't have normal teenage upbringing. I had friends but I moved to a new school at 15 and the last 3 years of high school was REALLY boring.
And I failed university for 2 years. Zero friendship skills and confidence at university. Quit and work for 2 years then went back to finish a 2 years course. But in those 2 years I only met a cool chick friend but I lost touch with her because I was unemployed after graduation.
Now I'm working at a factory for the last 4 years and had a positive motivation to change my job and develop myself to change careers.
I joined a martial art club for less than 2 years and quit because I didn't develop DEEP connection with the members.
I spend 2~3 years doing loner things, such as playing video games, staying home and watch T.V Fri and Sat night.
I made a new friends online, hang out with him few times since last year but he's not a quality friend. Treat me bad some of the time.
To be honest, I just lacked social confidence and lack a good friend to show me around. That's why I was moody and have problem making friends.
So this is my journey to help myself to become a social person. And share story/tips on how I overcome my shyness and loner lifestyle.
I am pretty normal I guess just that I being a quiet loner for too long and have poor friendship skills.
I'm in my early 30s. I am a normal guy who had no friends in my 20s and it made me really low self-esteem and confidence. But now I feel confident and strong, just lack social life.
I was a quiet guy in high school and had bad breath. Yes bad breath that's why I stay quiet.
So short story in high school I always by myself and didn't have normal teenage upbringing. I had friends but I moved to a new school at 15 and the last 3 years of high school was REALLY boring.
And I failed university for 2 years. Zero friendship skills and confidence at university. Quit and work for 2 years then went back to finish a 2 years course. But in those 2 years I only met a cool chick friend but I lost touch with her because I was unemployed after graduation.
Now I'm working at a factory for the last 4 years and had a positive motivation to change my job and develop myself to change careers.
I joined a martial art club for less than 2 years and quit because I didn't develop DEEP connection with the members.
I spend 2~3 years doing loner things, such as playing video games, staying home and watch T.V Fri and Sat night.
I made a new friends online, hang out with him few times since last year but he's not a quality friend. Treat me bad some of the time.
To be honest, I just lacked social confidence and lack a good friend to show me around. That's why I was moody and have problem making friends.
So this is my journey to help myself to become a social person. And share story/tips on how I overcome my shyness and loner lifestyle.
I am pretty normal I guess just that I being a quiet loner for too long and have poor friendship skills.