I'm still following this post, and just want to say that i still agree with everything sutton has said.
There are in fact real live factual scientific studdies out there that have proven the things she has stated
Firstly studdies prove :
That children who look at pictures of teachers think the teachers with pretty faces are "nicer".
and also
That employers percieve thier bullies as more skillful and better workers
What does this mean? it means that
pretty = nice
bully = skiled
You cant unsee these facts, because the study of human psychology is a science and here in those studdies, it has presented the facts.
Further to this, psychology studdies have also proven that certain industries workplaces are more subject to having psychopaths and narcissists in them.
And with that being said, being a kind genuine person, in a place of annimals, you're almost sure to get your soul chewed off.
My experience, and suttons experience is based on observation, experience and findings of scientific evidence confirming what we have discovered.
To the poster who mentioned not wanting to hang around someone like Sutton… to me, she's a breath of fresh air, because she has her eyes wide open and I greatly appreciate her support and friendship.
Further to this, on the flipside, there are also problems with being attractive, especially if you are also intelligent. Not to mention there are also problems with being intelligent, especially if you are efficient. Jealousy and envy in the mind of the wrong insecure person can ruin your entire career.