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ShybutHi
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When a remotely attractive woman approaches me my mind just locks up totally, I automatically look away and do not make eye contact. I also cannot ever approach a woman either. It is like a sudden barrage of different thoughts and anxiety when a woman is directing their attention to me personally. It is very difficult to communicate properly because of this anxiety and automatic lack of concentration of the social situation.
I guess I am intimidated by females besides some social anxiety so it makes everything even worse?
What on earth do you do about something like this?
I have battled with social anxiety and have become alot better at general socializing in comparison to what I used to be... I think some people who do not know me at this point in time may even just think I am shy and not even realize I used to and still do get anxious in social situations. Still it is harder with females. It is strange because in alot of social situations now I can handle them with next to no anxiety at all.
I do have some female friend's but they are all girlfriends of my male friends. It takes me a long time to get used to a female presence and I can only get used to them if I spend alot of time with them in a short period of time.
I must say aswell that I am not someone who views or treats females as some alien race. lol
It is just that it seems to be something which I cannot control and prevents me from making any kind of relation with females on any personal level.
You female's are so intimidating!
I guess I am intimidated by females besides some social anxiety so it makes everything even worse?
What on earth do you do about something like this?
I have battled with social anxiety and have become alot better at general socializing in comparison to what I used to be... I think some people who do not know me at this point in time may even just think I am shy and not even realize I used to and still do get anxious in social situations. Still it is harder with females. It is strange because in alot of social situations now I can handle them with next to no anxiety at all.
I do have some female friend's but they are all girlfriends of my male friends. It takes me a long time to get used to a female presence and I can only get used to them if I spend alot of time with them in a short period of time.
I must say aswell that I am not someone who views or treats females as some alien race. lol
It is just that it seems to be something which I cannot control and prevents me from making any kind of relation with females on any personal level.
You female's are so intimidating!