I've had it up to my NECK with this BULLSHIT.

[RyanEhf]

ok (hug)

 

[Lonesome Crow]

Maybe u might try talking to people in Alanon. Coda or ACOA.
Most come from dyfunctional homes.
They made lasting changes or in
process of recovery..

Trying to keep everyone is happy
or taking of everyones problems.
is the most common trait of codependency.

Salmons, Penguins, whales.etc
Animals have a build in homing
beacon. Birds fly south for the winter..etc

Humans dose too. Except human
BRING HOME TO THEM.

U heard of... a girl running away from
home to get way from her father and ended up marrying someone just like her father???

I get ya....

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I didnt look into co dependency
until 5 yrs ago.
After fail relationships after failed relationships..

All the women I get involve with are
very beautiul and sweet from the started It dosnt matter what they do
for a living or where I meet them.

My exwf was a girl next door type.
I met her at work.

Sherry was a social worker Professional type. I met her in church.

Renae was a wild party girl.

Years later iinto into the relationship
all of thes women had onething in common asside from their looks....
They all treated me like my alcoholic father even though they dont all have
the exact same traits..

I thought I was doing the right thing..
Be a good partner, nice guy. A provider and being supportive...

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No...none of the women have
Pyscho ***** stamp on their forehead.

I dont have victim stamp on mine either.

 

[Callie]

Maybe u might try talking to people in Alanon. Coda or ACOA.

Dude, you are seriously missing the point of what these programs are about. Rabbit mentioned NOTHING about alcoholics, so these places are not for her. There ARE programs for people who have dysfunctional families but Al-anon and ACOA are NOT those. Stop pushing them on people.

 

[SophiaGrace]

Hmm I really don't have advice for you but you do have your own life to live, rather than taking he fall for other peoples weaknesses and wants.

 

[Callie]

Yeah rabbit, you just need an escort from London

 

[Limlim]

I fully agree with this proposal, get yourself a nice whore. One you can bring home to mom and dad, meet the family and be proud of.

 

[Brian]

I just informed my entire workplace how I feel about a few of them and how it should be fixed.

It feels really good. I don't know who your people are, but, just say it. Be dominant and say it.

 

[SophiaGrace]

I just informed my entire workplace how I feel about a few of them and how it should be fixed.

It feels really good. I don't know who your people are, but, just say it. Be dominant and say it.

Let us know how that turns out. I hope it doesn't cause problems for you.