lovehurtme
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Have you ever felt like you were letting a guy/girl take advantage of you, but you were powerless to stop it? Well, maybe not powerless, but unwilling. That is how I feel now. I am seeing a guy that never calls, and is at least 2 hours late to every planned evening we have. I want to get mad, but I am scared to lose him. I don't even know why. I could get another boyfriend, and this guy is not special, but he is the only guy that I am serious about now, and I do not want to be alone. Tonight, he was supposed to come over at 7-8 pm, and I was going to make dinner. Well, he told me he'll be here at 9 pm (about 5 minutes ago). I told him that I won't be here, and then he says with bass in his voice, "Just be there! I won't wait for you!" Then I said, "Why not? I'm always waiting on you, and you just expect me to wait." Then he says, "I don't have time for this. You better be there when I get there!" Then I said, "Whatever, bye!" I don't know what to do. Do you know his excuse this time for being late? He RAN OUT OF GAS! Seriously! I'm not a total moron! I just don't know what to do. I am scared of being alone, but tired of being treated badly. This guy doesn't even want to be in a committed relationship to me, but he wants me to wait around for him. Am I blowing this out of proportion? I know I'm allowing myself to be treated badly, but I've never been treated well, so I don't really know what I should expect from men. This whole situation makes me even more depressed!