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bear
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being a shy lad, with low self esteem, i find it REALLY hard to make conversation with people.
On forums, or msn, i dont mind, but face-to-face i find the task impossible.
If the person im talking to has similar interests to me, then its easy, but people ive just met, or arent familar with, who dont have similar interests, the conversation is dead before its started.
And, I, under no circumstances, succumb to small talk, or will bother to put up with small talk (its just the way i am )
any thoughts as to how i can crack up a decent convo?
On forums, or msn, i dont mind, but face-to-face i find the task impossible.
If the person im talking to has similar interests to me, then its easy, but people ive just met, or arent familar with, who dont have similar interests, the conversation is dead before its started.
And, I, under no circumstances, succumb to small talk, or will bother to put up with small talk (its just the way i am )
any thoughts as to how i can crack up a decent convo?