edamame721
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There was someone who I liked for years and I finally asked him out on a date but after it, he insisted I was playing games. I made efforts to be his friend (since he seemed like he wasn't ready for a relationship) but they weren't appreciated.
Six months ago, I decided to treat him as a loose acquaintance and danced with him at a friend's party. I didn't feel anything and I thought I had put my feelings behind me, when he tried to ascertain if I was still interested in him. He did this by claiming he didn't get "enough female attention" and then accused me of playing games again.
I stormed off angry and after a week of thinking, let him know I wasn't interested in him as potential romantic partner or as a friend. But now, I still sometimes think of him and second guess myself. But, I know I made the right decision...is it normal to think of people you were interested in when you are single? I have a feeling I would not be as soft on him in real life compared to my memory of him.
Six months ago, I decided to treat him as a loose acquaintance and danced with him at a friend's party. I didn't feel anything and I thought I had put my feelings behind me, when he tried to ascertain if I was still interested in him. He did this by claiming he didn't get "enough female attention" and then accused me of playing games again.
I stormed off angry and after a week of thinking, let him know I wasn't interested in him as potential romantic partner or as a friend. But now, I still sometimes think of him and second guess myself. But, I know I made the right decision...is it normal to think of people you were interested in when you are single? I have a feeling I would not be as soft on him in real life compared to my memory of him.