GrayAndLonesome
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Although I have been belly aching about not liking the first two girls I've met on the online dating website, and then complaining about the third girl (whom I reallly like!) not responding much to my text messages for follow-up dates, I am seeing two other women right now.
One of the two girls, I have met her already two times.
I like her personality. Her cultural background and ethnicity is almost similar to mine. However, her looks, bleh, she looks mediocre and I can't imagine myself having sex with her. However, I don't want to just "throw her away." I actually wouldn't mind keeping her just as a friend (sadly, basically, I would like to friendzone her).
The other person is a female who's slightly older than me. She's okay looking and I could even have romance with her. Not a rock-solid model, but decent body and face is slightly above average (maybe better if she got rid of her glasses). She has a stronger academic background than I do, as she got her PhD in molecular cell biology four years ago and is applying for a tenured faculty position to lecture at the university's medical school. Her parents don't live here in the US, but in mainland China.
The only thing that irked me about this girl, is she LIED to me about her age. She told me during our "walk along the lake" date that she was born two years after my birth year, hence, making her two years younger than me. However, I did some online "research" on her (no no no, I'm not a stalker!), and her birthday is actually four months ahead of my birthday. She told me the correct month and date of her birth, but not the year. Hence, that makes her slightly older than me, but not that old.....just four months. I mean sheesh, why did she have to lie about her age?
So my question is, do you people think that it's okay to date multiple people, at the same time, while doing online dating? It feels really weird to me. For example, I keep planning date locations nearby where each of them live, and making the date locations far apart, so hopefully when I'm out with one girl, the other girl doesn't bump into us walking together at the mall, or eating together at a restaurant.
One of the two girls, I have met her already two times.
I like her personality. Her cultural background and ethnicity is almost similar to mine. However, her looks, bleh, she looks mediocre and I can't imagine myself having sex with her. However, I don't want to just "throw her away." I actually wouldn't mind keeping her just as a friend (sadly, basically, I would like to friendzone her).
The other person is a female who's slightly older than me. She's okay looking and I could even have romance with her. Not a rock-solid model, but decent body and face is slightly above average (maybe better if she got rid of her glasses). She has a stronger academic background than I do, as she got her PhD in molecular cell biology four years ago and is applying for a tenured faculty position to lecture at the university's medical school. Her parents don't live here in the US, but in mainland China.
The only thing that irked me about this girl, is she LIED to me about her age. She told me during our "walk along the lake" date that she was born two years after my birth year, hence, making her two years younger than me. However, I did some online "research" on her (no no no, I'm not a stalker!), and her birthday is actually four months ahead of my birthday. She told me the correct month and date of her birth, but not the year. Hence, that makes her slightly older than me, but not that old.....just four months. I mean sheesh, why did she have to lie about her age?
So my question is, do you people think that it's okay to date multiple people, at the same time, while doing online dating? It feels really weird to me. For example, I keep planning date locations nearby where each of them live, and making the date locations far apart, so hopefully when I'm out with one girl, the other girl doesn't bump into us walking together at the mall, or eating together at a restaurant.