I'm 37, and at the moment I'm sat at my computer in my flat typing this message with a cold/flu and feeling very very lonely and depressed. I have literally 2 mates, 1 of which I play snooker with once a week or 10 days or so, another will call me occasionally. The only other person I have contact with is my dad, will do for tea once a week and text or call him occasionally.
I can't understand how I've got here to be honest. I think I have a personality disorder. Surely this isn't just anxiety/depression?
I seem to be very self focused (wouldn't say selfish but dunno), just very focused on myself all the time and feel down, but I don't mean to be this way. I perpetually feel low, empty and worthless, and have been diagnosed with anxiety and depression in 1998, which has gotten much worse the past 5yrs. I haven't worked (apart from voluntary work) since 2003. Since then, apart from voluntary work, I've sold The Big Issue (homeless magazine on the street) and made money busking (playing guitar and singing). I did see, end up on heroin for 10ys with a couple of clean periods and perhaps this is the reason I've become a loner type person, coz you are in an isolated group in society when you're on that. I will have been clean 3yrs in 3 months.
I'm currently seeing a counselor once a week, and she says she has to keep pulling me back, I'm very easily distracted and veer off on tangents. I just don't know, perhaps I got ADHD or is it ADD now?
I have had 2 girls delete me on Facebook and 1, I ain't the foggiest to why. 1 girl deleted me 18months ago, we were on chat and she mentioned something about cars and I was a bit blunt saying I knew nothing about cars and didn't wish to talk about them. This is the only thing I can think of as to why she deleted me. See, this is what I'm like, I feel strange sometimes, as I don't know or have interest in certain topics of conversation as I know nothing about them. i.e - Cars, Politics or Royal Family. I don't know, all's I know is I'm jobless, lifeless and feel hopeless and don't know where I'm going in life or what I want. Nobody really wants be my mate and ain't had a girlfriend in years, to be honest, I've only had very brief relationships. What is wrong with me? I also got another voluntary job a fortnight ago and on the 3rd day there I ended up walking out and made a bit of an idiot of myself. I couldn't put together a flat back table and chairs and felt worthless and stupid so I walked out saying I couldn't do it. Been tempted go back and apologise but feel embarrassed. I also can't go out drinking and socialise that way, as when I drink, I can if I'm not carefull, feel strange and have a panic attack, strange, not to mention I never got any money as I'm struggling to make ends meet on the dole.
I can't understand how I've got here to be honest. I think I have a personality disorder. Surely this isn't just anxiety/depression?
I seem to be very self focused (wouldn't say selfish but dunno), just very focused on myself all the time and feel down, but I don't mean to be this way. I perpetually feel low, empty and worthless, and have been diagnosed with anxiety and depression in 1998, which has gotten much worse the past 5yrs. I haven't worked (apart from voluntary work) since 2003. Since then, apart from voluntary work, I've sold The Big Issue (homeless magazine on the street) and made money busking (playing guitar and singing). I did see, end up on heroin for 10ys with a couple of clean periods and perhaps this is the reason I've become a loner type person, coz you are in an isolated group in society when you're on that. I will have been clean 3yrs in 3 months.
I'm currently seeing a counselor once a week, and she says she has to keep pulling me back, I'm very easily distracted and veer off on tangents. I just don't know, perhaps I got ADHD or is it ADD now?
I have had 2 girls delete me on Facebook and 1, I ain't the foggiest to why. 1 girl deleted me 18months ago, we were on chat and she mentioned something about cars and I was a bit blunt saying I knew nothing about cars and didn't wish to talk about them. This is the only thing I can think of as to why she deleted me. See, this is what I'm like, I feel strange sometimes, as I don't know or have interest in certain topics of conversation as I know nothing about them. i.e - Cars, Politics or Royal Family. I don't know, all's I know is I'm jobless, lifeless and feel hopeless and don't know where I'm going in life or what I want. Nobody really wants be my mate and ain't had a girlfriend in years, to be honest, I've only had very brief relationships. What is wrong with me? I also got another voluntary job a fortnight ago and on the 3rd day there I ended up walking out and made a bit of an idiot of myself. I couldn't put together a flat back table and chairs and felt worthless and stupid so I walked out saying I couldn't do it. Been tempted go back and apologise but feel embarrassed. I also can't go out drinking and socialise that way, as when I drink, I can if I'm not carefull, feel strange and have a panic attack, strange, not to mention I never got any money as I'm struggling to make ends meet on the dole.